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National Child-Centered Divorce Month: Making Divorce Easier on Children

Divorce is one of the most significant disruptions a child can experience. In cases involving substantial assets, business interests, public exposure, or entrenched conflict, the potential impact on children is heightened, not because of the complexity itself, but because of how adults manage it.

Decades of psychological research and family-law jurisprudence are clear on one point: children fare best when they are protected from conflict, instability, and the emotional burden of adult decision-making. 

Even in high-conflict or high-net-worth divorces, intentional, child-centered strategies can meaningfully reduce long-term harm and promote resilience.

1. Preserve clear boundaries between adult conflict and the child’s experience

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One of the most critical protections for children is the maintenance of firm boundaries between legal conflict and family life.

In complex divorce matters, children are often inadvertently exposed to:

  • Litigation-related conversations
  • Financial disputes or commentary
  • Emotional reactions tied to court proceedings
  • Subtle or overt pressure to align with one parent

Courts and child-development professionals consistently recognize that children should not be placed in the role of observer, messenger, or emotional confidant.

Best practice: All legal, financial, and strategic discussions should remain exclusively between adults and professionals. Children should experience both households as emotionally safe environments, not extensions of the legal process.

2. Prioritize stability through routine and predictability

When family structures change, children instinctively seek predictability. This is especially true in families with complex schedules, multiple residences, or demanding professional lives.

Disruptions that often occur during high-conflict divorces, frequent schedule changes, inconsistent expectations, or unilateral decisions can undermine a child’s sense of security.

Child-centered planning emphasizes:

  • Consistency in school, extracurricular activities, and peer relationships
  • Clearly defined parenting schedules with minimal ambiguity
  • Reliable transition protocols between households
  • Advance notice for travel or deviations from routine

Predictability is not a logistical preference; it is a developmental necessity.

3. Support the child’s relationship with both parents

A foundational principle in child-focused family law is that children benefit from meaningful relationships with both parents, absent safety concerns.

In high-conflict cases, children are particularly vulnerable to loyalty conflicts: situations in which they feel compelled to choose one parent over the other. These dynamics are associated with long-term emotional distress and relational difficulties.

Industry-recognized standards call for:

  • Affirming the child’s right to love both parents without guilt
  • Refraining from disparaging or undermining the other parent
  • Avoiding disclosure of adult grievances to the child
  • Encouraging positive engagement with the other parent during parenting time

Preserving these relationships is not only emotionally protective, but it is also often consistent with judicial expectations and best-interest analyses.

4. Utilize neutral professionals early and strategically

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In complex or high-conflict divorces, professional support should be integrated proactively rather than reactively.

Appropriate professionals may include:

  • Child therapists to support emotional processing
  • Parenting coordinators to reduce conflict around day-to-day decisions
  • Family systems therapists can improve communication
  • Child representatives or guardians ad litem, when necessary

Early involvement can help prevent escalation, reduce future litigation, and provide the court with confidence that the child’s needs are being addressed responsibly.

5. Develop parenting plans that are child-centered, not outcome-driven

In sophisticated divorce matters, parenting plans can become entangled with issues of control, leverage, or perceived equity. A child-centered parenting plan is grounded instead in developmental appropriateness and long-term functionality.

High-quality parenting plans address:

  • Age-appropriate parenting time and transitions
  • Educational continuity and decision-making authority
  • Medical and therapeutic coordination
  • Travel parameters and communication protocols
  • Clear mechanisms for resolving disputes outside of court

Well-constructed parenting plans help reduce ambiguity, minimize conflict, and provide children with clarity and security.

6. Shield children from financial stress and adult economic realities

While financial considerations are central to complex divorces, children should not be burdened with financial narratives.

Statements that frame financial outcomes as losses, blame, or scarcity can create anxiety and a misplaced sense of responsibility.

A child-focused approach includes:

  • Providing reassurance that their needs will be met
  • Maintaining continuity in education and activities where possible
  • Avoiding financial commentary tied to the divorce
  • Ensuring financial arrangements are handled through formal agreements, not parental conflict

Children require stability, not financial transparency.

7. Model emotional regulation and conflict management

Children learn emotional regulation by observation. In high-conflict environments, unmanaged adult reactions can amplify fear, confusion, or insecurity.

Aligned behavior may include:

  • Managing conflict away from the child
  • Demonstrating calm during exchanges and transitions
  • Acknowledging and repairing emotional missteps when they occur
  • Seeking professional support rather than relying on children for emotional processing

Parental composure can be one of the strongest predictors of a child’s post-divorce adjustment.

8. Understand the long-term perspective

As children mature, they may not remember legal arguments or financial outcomes, but they will remember how they were treated.

They will recall:

  • Whether they felt protected from conflict
  • Whether their needs were prioritized
  • Whether they were allowed to maintain relationships freely
  • Whether adults acted with integrity and restraint

In complex divorces, the process itself becomes part of the child’s emotional history.

How Masters Law Group Can Support You Through Complex, High‑Conflict Divorce

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When families face the dual pressures of complex legal issues and emotional turmoil, having trusted, experienced counsel can be extremely valuable. Masters Law Group is widely recognized as one of Illinois’ leading family law practices, with deep experience in high‑stakes divorce matters, a child‑centered philosophy, and a track record of excellence backed by industry awards and peer recognition. 

Decades of Distinguished Family Law Experience

Masters Law Group’s attorneys focus exclusively on family law, including divorce, child allocation, and related family law matters, giving clients seasoned legal counsel tailored to the nuances of Illinois law. 

  • Erin E. Masters, Principal of the firm, has built her career representing clients in both pre‑decree and post‑decree family law matters, including divorce, parenting time, support, and complex custody issues. Ms. Masters also holds appointments as a court‑appointed Child Representative and mediator in complex cases; a role that reflects both her deep legal expertise and the trust the Circuit Court places in her judgment in sensitive situations. 
  • Anthony G. Joseph, Partner at the firm, brings a unique focus on complex litigation, including international child abduction and cross‑border custody disputes under the Hague Convention and UCCJEA. Mr. Joseph’s extensive experience in federal and state courts is coupled with an “AV” Preeminent peer‑review rating, the highest available, and multiple recognitions as a “Rising Star” by Illinois Super Lawyers.

Together with a team of dedicated associate attorneys, Masters Law Group offers a multi‑layered legal strategy informed by thorough experience and a deep understanding of how intricate legal issues intersect with real family dynamics. 

Award‑Winning Recognition for Excellence and Client Service

Masters Law Group’s commitment to excellence isn’t self‑declared; it’s validated by independent legal peers and respected publications:

  • The firm and its partners have been consistently recognized in The Best Lawyers in America, one of the legal profession’s most respected peer‑reviewed honors. This distinction is based on extensive evaluations of professional skill, integrity, and service, not on paid listings. Masters Law Group has earned regional rankings in both Family Law and Family Law Mediation, demonstrating expertise across litigation and amicable resolution processes. 
  • The firm has appeared in U.S. News & World Report’s “Best Law Firms” rankings, a significant marker of both quality and breadth of legal practice, reflecting positive feedback from clients and other attorneys alike. 
  • Individual accolades include repeated recognition for Ms. Masters as a Super Lawyer and Rising Star, distinctions awarded to only a small percentage of attorneys in the state, signaling peer respect for her litigation and mediation skills. 

These honors matter because they reflect sustained professional excellence across both advocacy and dispute resolution, especially in cases involving children, complex assets, or high conflict.

Holistic, Child‑Centered Legal Advocacy

At Masters Law Group, legal strategy is never siloed from human needs. Complex divorces can become prolonged and adversarial, but engaging early with a team that understands both the law and the psychology of transitions makes a significant difference. 

How we support families and their children:

  • Guidance on fair, sustainable parenting plans. We help parents craft parenting arrangements that prioritize stability, predictability, and the developmental needs of children, not just legal compliance. 
  • Child advocacy in high‑conflict environments. With experience as court‑appointed Child Representatives and Guardians ad litem, our attorneys bring a perspective that courts deeply respect when children’s best interests are at the center.
  • Mediation and alternative dispute resolution. Where appropriate, we help families pursue structured, less adversarial routes that help reduce emotional strain, protect privacy, and often lead to more durable solutions. 
  • Strategic litigation support. When negotiation isn’t viable, our litigators advocate vigorously for clients’ interests in court, with professionalism, preparation, and a track record of successful outcomes.

Clients facing high‑conflict or high‑net‑worth divorce benefit from a law firm that doesn’t just “handle” the case, a firm that integrates legal strategy, child‑focused planning, and emotional intelligence into every recommendation.

Final Thoughts

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High-conflict or high-net-worth divorces do not preclude thoughtful, child-focused decision-making. With intentional strategy, professional guidance, and disciplined boundaries, parents can significantly reduce harm and promote long-term well-being.

At Masters Law Group, we approach complex divorce with both legal precision and a clear understanding of the developmental realities facing children. Our advocacy is designed to help protect our clients’ interests while advancing solutions that courts respect and that children benefit from.

If you are navigating a complex or high-conflict divorce and are concerned about the impact on your child, contact Masters Law Group for a confidential consultation. 

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a qualified attorney regarding your specific circumstances.

Divorce Mediation in 2025: New Directions with Masters Law Group

When couples face divorce, the courtroom isn’t the only path forward. Mediation has become one of the most effective ways to resolve disputes with less conflict, greater privacy, and often, lower cost. At Masters Law Group in Chicago, our attorneys bring decades of experience to the table, and as trained legal mediators, we help families find common ground during life’s most difficult transitions.

Erin E. Masters, Partner at Masters Law Group, has been approved as a Mediator for the Cook County Domestic Relations Division and also offers private mediation services. This recognition reflects our firm’s dedication to guiding clients toward resolution outside the courtroom.

So what does divorce mediation look like in 2025 — and why are more people turning to it than ever before?

Mediation That Meets Families Where They Are

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Remote options, once seen as temporary, are now a staple of mediation. Whether a couple lives in different neighborhoods of Chicago or entirely different states, virtual sessions allow both parties to participate without the stress of commuting or scheduling conflicts. Secure platforms also make it easier to share documents, exchange proposals, and keep the process organized.

But technology isn’t the only driver of change. Today’s clients expect mediation to be tailored, transparent, and client-focused. At Masters Law Group, we emphasize clear explanations of every step, realistic timelines, and solutions designed for the unique needs of each family.

Beyond Legal Issues: Supporting the Whole Family

Unlike litigation, mediation gives space for the emotional realities of divorce. Parents often need help working through not just financial disagreements, but the stress and communication challenges that come with separating households.

Our mediators integrate strategies that support cooperation and emphasize long-term stability, particularly when children are involved. Allocation of parental responsibilities and child-focused agreements are crafted with the goal of reducing conflict and protecting kids from the fallout of divorce.

Tackling Complex and High-Value Cases

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Mediation today isn’t limited to simple divorces. In fact, some of the most complicated cases — those involving business interests, high-value property, or intricate custody disputes — are increasingly handled through mediation. Experienced mediators like those at Masters Law Group are equipped to address these layers of complexity, drawing on both legal knowledge and conflict-resolution skills.

Continuous Growth and New Approaches

As mediation evolves, so does the role of the mediator. Attorneys across Illinois are engaging in advanced training, new ethical frameworks, and even data-driven methods to improve outcomes. At Masters Law Group, we are committed to staying ahead of these developments, ensuring our clients benefit from the latest tools and techniques.

Global best practices, mindfulness strategies, and emotional intelligence techniques are also entering the mediation space. These holistic approaches help families communicate more effectively and reach balanced decisions that support their lives long after the divorce is finalized.

Why More Families Are Choosing Mediation

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“Every divorce is different, but one theme remains constant: families want solutions that protect their privacy, finances, and relationships. Mediation offers an environment where couples can focus on compromise instead of conflict, leading to outcomes that feel fair and sustainable.” – Erin E. Masters

If you are considering divorce and want to avoid the stress of litigation, our team can help.

👉 Contact Masters Law Group today to schedule a mediation appointment with Erin E. Masters or one of our experienced attorneys.

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you need legal assistance, please contact the qualified attorneys at Masters Law Group. Our firm can help you handle your family law case in Illinois, including divorce, custody, and mediation services.

The Most Common FAQs About Divorce

Divorce can be one of the most emotionally and financially challenging life transitions anyone faces. Whether you’re considering filing for divorce or already in the process, understanding your rights and the legal framework can help you make more informed decisions. 

At Masters Law Group, we understand that every family situation is unique, and so are the questions that arise. That’s why we’ve put together this comprehensive guide addressing the most frequently asked questions about divorce in Illinois.

Divorce FAQs

1. What Are the Grounds for Divorce in Illinois?

Illinois is a “no-fault” divorce state. This means that the only legally recognized ground for divorce is irreconcilable differences, or the inability to get along with no hope for reconciliation. You don’t need to prove infidelity, abuse, or any other misconduct to file.

However, fault can still play a role in related matters like property division or parenting time, especially if one party’s behavior negatively impacts the children or marital assets.

2. What’s the Difference Between Contested and Uncontested Divorce?

Masters Law Group can help you determine the best route for your situation and protect your interests every step of the way.

3. Do I Need an Attorney to Get Divorced in Illinois?

While it is legally possible to get a divorce without an attorney, it’s not recommended, especially if children, significant assets, or spousal support are involved. Divorce laws are complex, and without proper legal guidance, you could end up with an unfair settlement or make mistakes that delay the process.

Working with an experienced family law attorney from Masters Law Group helps ensure your rights are protected and your future is secured.

4. What Happens to Our Property and Assets in a Divorce?

Illinois follows the principle of equitable distribution. This does not mean assets are split 50/50, but rather in a manner the court deems fair. Marital property is typically divided, while separate property remains with the original owner.

  • Marital Property: Assets acquired during the marriage (homes, income, retirement accounts, etc.)
  • Separate Property: Assets owned before the marriage or received as gifts/inheritance

A judge will consider factors like each spouse’s financial circumstances, contributions to the marriage, and parenting plan arrangements when dividing assets.

5. How Is Debt Handled in a Divorce?

Just like assets, debts incurred during the marriage are generally considered marital and are divided equitably. This includes mortgages, credit card debt, auto loans, and other shared liabilities.

If a debt is in one spouse’s name but was used for family purposes, it may still be considered marital debt. Protecting your financial future means understanding and negotiating how these obligations are split.

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6. What Are the Laws Around Allocation of Parental Responsibility

Illinois law uses the term allocation of parental responsibilities instead of “custody.” Parenting responsibilities are divided into:

  • Decision-Making: Who makes decisions about education, healthcare, religion, and extracurriculars
  • Parenting Time: Where and when the child spends time with each parent

Courts always prioritize the child’s best interests, considering factors like:

  • The wishes of the child (depending on age/maturity)
  • The relationship between the child and each parent
  • The child’s adjustment to home, school, and community
  • The mental and physical health of all parties

At Masters Law Group, we are experienced in developing customized parenting plans that reflect your family’s needs and serve your child’s best interests.

7. How Is Child Support Calculated in Illinois?

Illinois uses an income shares model to calculate child support. This model considers both parents’ income and the number of overnights each parent has with the child.

Support may also include expenses for:

  • Health insurance
  • Childcare
  • Extracurricular activities
  • Educational expenses

Our attorneys use state-approved tools to estimate child support and advocate for fair arrangements that reflect your family’s financial realities.

8. Can I Modify a Child Support or Parenting Plan Agreement?

Yes. Life changes, and Illinois law allows modifications under certain circumstances. To request a change, you must show a substantial change in circumstances, such as a job loss, relocation, or change in the child’s needs.

At Masters Law Group, we guide clients through modification requests and work to help ensure updated arrangements meet your needs and comply with Illinois law.

9. What Is Spousal Support (Alimony), and How Is It Determined?

Spousal maintenance, formerly known as alimony, is not automatic in Illinois divorces. The court evaluates several factors, including:

  • The length of the marriage
  • The standard of living established
  • Each spouse’s income and earning potential
  • Contributions to the household (including homemaking)
  • The recipient spouse’s need for education or training

If awarded, maintenance is calculated based on a formula outlined in Illinois law, unless the court decides otherwise.

10. Can My Spouse and I Use Mediation or Collaborative Divorce?

Yes. Many couples choose alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation or collaborative divorce to settle their issues outside of court.

  • Mediation involves a neutral third party helping you reach agreements.
  • Collaborative Divorce involves both parties hiring divorce attorneys who work cooperatively to resolve issues.

These approaches can save time, money, and emotional distress while keeping you in control of the process.

Masters Law Group offers mediation and collaborative law services tailored to fit your unique situation.

11. Can I Move Out of State With My Child After Divorce?

Under Illinois law, you cannot relocate a child out of state, or more than 25 miles away from the child’s current residence within Illinois, without court approval or the other parent’s consent.

If relocation is contested, the court will weigh several factors to determine whether the move is in the child’s best interest.

If you’re considering relocation, it’s crucial to work with a skilled family law attorney to navigate the legal steps involved.

12. What if My Spouse Won’t Cooperate With the Divorce?

Even if your spouse refuses to participate, you can still obtain a divorce. The court may proceed with a default judgment if your spouse does not respond after being properly served.

While it may take more time, you do not need your spouse’s permission to divorce. At Masters Law Group, we help clients move forward confidently, even in high-conflict or uncooperative situations.

13. Will My Divorce Be Public?

Divorce proceedings in Illinois are public record. However, certain sensitive documents, such as financial affidavits and parenting plans, can sometimes be sealed or kept confidential upon request.

If privacy is a priority, Masters Law Group can help minimize exposure and protect your personal information wherever possible.

14. How Much Does a Divorce Cost in Illinois?

The cost of a divorce can vary widely depending on the complexity of your case and whether it’s contested or uncontested. Some of the main factors that influence cost include:

  • Whether you and your spouse agree on key issues like asset division, child support, and parenting time
  • The need for expert witnesses (such as financial analysts or child psychologists)
  • Court filing fees and other administrative costs
  • The amount of time your attorney needs to spend on negotiations, court appearances, and document preparation

At Masters Law Group, we’re committed to transparency and efficiency. We’ll provide a clear fee structure, keep you informed of your legal options, and work diligently to resolve your case in the most cost-effective manner possible. We also offer flexible payment options for qualifying clients.

15. What Should I Do First if I’m Thinking About Divorce?

If you’re considering divorce, start by:

  1. Consulting an attorney to understand your rights
  2. Gathering financial documents (bank records, tax returns, etc.)
  3. Creating a plan for children if applicable
  4. Considering where you will live

The most important first step is to speak with an experienced divorce attorney who can help you assess your options and build a strategy that protects your interests.

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Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone

Divorce is never easy, but you don’t have to go through it alone. The legal and emotional complexities can feel overwhelming, but with the right support, you can move forward with confidence.

At Masters Law Group, we provide compassionate, skilled legal guidance tailored to your unique needs. Whether you’re facing a high-net-worth divorce, navigating parenting plans, or seeking spousal support, our experienced attorneys are here to help.

Contact us today to schedule a complimentary consultation.

More About Masters Law Group

Whether you’re in the early stages of considering divorce or are already deep in the process, choosing the right legal partner can make all the difference in your outcome and your peace of mind. At Masters Law Group, we’re more than just legal professionals; we are dedicated advocates committed to helping individuals and families navigate complex emotional and legal terrain with clarity and confidence.

Here’s how our team stands apart:

✔ Client-Centered Approach

At Masters Law Group, we recognize that every divorce is unique. There is no “one-size-fits-all” solution. That’s why we take a personalized approach to every case, taking the time to understand your goals, concerns, and family dynamics. We listen first, and then create a legal strategy tailored to meet your specific needs.

Whether you’re seeking a peaceful resolution through mediation or preparing for a contested courtroom battle, we adapt our approach to fit your circumstances.

✔ Comprehensive Divorce Representation

From the initial filing to the final judgment, we provide end-to-end support in all aspects of divorce, including:

  • Division of Marital Assets and Debts
  • Spousal Maintenance (Alimony)
  • Child Support and Parenting Time Agreements
  • Post-Divorce Modifications
  • Relocation Petitions
  • Domestic Violence and Orders of Protection

We also have significant experience handling complex, high-net-worth divorces and international family law issues, including Hague Convention matters.

✔ Skilled Mediation and Collaborative Law Services

We know that litigation isn’t always the best or most efficient route for families. When appropriate, we offer mediation and collaborative divorce options that allow you to resolve disputes privately, amicably, and cost-effectively without sacrificing your legal rights or financial future.

Our attorneys are trained in alternative dispute resolution and have a strong track record of helping clients reach favorable outcomes outside of court.

✔ Focused on Family First

If children are involved, we understand how critical it is to protect their well-being while preserving your rights as a parent. Our team is highly experienced in handling allocation of parental responsibilities, parenting plans, and child support matters. We work diligently to create solutions that serve your child’s best interests while minimizing conflict and helping ensure long-term stability.

✔ Transparent Communication and Accessibility

We pride ourselves on being responsive and communicative. You’ll never be left in the dark about your case. We keep you updated every step of the way, explain legal jargon in plain English, and are always available to answer your questions.

You can count on us for honesty, reliability, and timely support because when your family’s future is at stake, nothing matters more.

✔ Award-Winning Representation

Masters Law Group is recognized as a top-tier law firm in Illinois family law. Our attorneys have been consistently honored by Super Lawyers, Best Lawyers, and the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, among others.

Our results speak for themselves, but so do our client testimonials. We’re proud to serve as a trusted legal partner for families across Chicago and the surrounding suburbs.

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Ready to Take the First Step?

We understand the uncertainty that comes with divorce, but you don’t have to face it alone. Whether you’re seeking information, guidance, or immediate representation, Masters Law Group is here to help you take back control of your future.

👉 Schedule a confidential consultation today to learn how we can help you navigate this process with confidence and compassion.

   

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you need legal assistance, please contact the qualified attorneys at Masters Law Group. Our firm can help you handle your family law case in Illinois, including divorce, custody, and mediation services.

Social Media and Divorce: What You Post Can (and Will) Be Used Against You

In today’s digital age, social media is a deeply embedded part of our lives. From sharing milestones and daily moments to connecting with friends and family, platforms like Facebook, Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), and TikTok have revolutionized the way we communicate. But while social media has its perks, it can also complicate personal matters, especially divorce.

At Masters Law Group, we’ve seen firsthand how posts, likes, comments, and even private messages can play a crucial role in divorce proceedings. If you’re going through a divorce or anticipating one, understanding how your social media activity could impact your case is critical.

Let’s explore how social media affects divorce cases, what kind of content can be used as evidence, and how to navigate your online presence wisely during this emotionally charged time.

Social Media’s Expanding Role in Divorce

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The Digital Paper Trail

One of the key differences between divorces today and those from just a decade ago is the availability of digital evidence. Social media provides a real-time digital paper trail that can be subpoenaed and introduced in court.

Photos, captions, check-ins, friend lists, direct messages, and comments can all be retrieved and used to build a narrative about your behavior, lifestyle, and credibility. Even deleted content may not be fully gone. Once something is on the internet, it can often be recovered.

According to the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML), 78% of divorce attorneys reported an increase in the use of social media evidence in their cases. 

How Social Media Can Impact Your Divorce

1. Allocation of Parental Responsibility 

Your social media behavior can directly affect your parenting plan. Courts aim to make decisions based on the best interests of the child. If your posts suggest irresponsible parenting, such as photos of excessive partying, substance abuse, or disparaging comments about your ex, it could significantly harm your case.

Even a seemingly innocent post of a night out without your child could be interpreted as neglectful, depending on the context. Judges take a holistic view, and social media can tip the scales.

2. Alimony and Asset Division

If you’re claiming financial hardship while simultaneously showcasing a luxury lifestyle on social media, don’t be surprised when your posts are used against you.

Posts featuring expensive vacations, new cars, high-end purchases, or lavish dinners can contradict claims of limited income or inability to pay spousal or child support. Conversely, if you’re hiding assets or underreporting income, social media can reveal the truth.

3. Infidelity and Misconduct

Even if Illinois is a no-fault divorce state, evidence of cheating or marital misconduct can still influence certain aspects of a case, particularly parenting plans or property division.

Tagging, location check-ins, or cozy photos with a new partner during separation can be used to paint a narrative of infidelity or poor judgment. Direct messages or flirty comments might also be admissible evidence.

4. Violation of Court Orders

Once legal proceedings are underway, temporary orders regarding communication, child visitation, or financial support may be in place. Violating these orders, intentionally or not, via social media can result in contempt of court.

For example, badmouthing your ex online after being ordered not to, or discussing confidential aspects of your divorce, can have serious legal consequences.

Real-Life Examples of Social Media Missteps

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To illustrate just how impactful social media can be, here are a few real-world scenarios:

  • The Instagram Overshare: A woman claimed she couldn’t afford spousal support, but her Instagram account showed a recent trip to the Maldives, designer handbags, and daily upscale dining. Her feed became a key exhibit in her ex-spouse’s motion to modify support.
  • The Facebook Faux Pas: A father in a parenting plan dispute posted a video of himself drinking with friends while his young child was present in the background. The video was submitted to the judge and influenced the arrangement.
  • The TikTok Rant: A man posted a series of rants about his ex and the court system. His videos included threats and disparaging remarks. The court considered the content abusive and ruled it as damaging behavior in both parenting time and property division rulings.

Tips for Managing Social Media During Divorce

To help protect yourself and your case, consider following these practical guidelines:

1. Pause or Limit Your Social Media Activity

If possible, consider deactivating your accounts temporarily. If that feels too drastic, at least switch your profiles to private, avoid posting about your personal life, and drastically limit your interactions.

2. Avoid Posting About Your Divorce

Never air your grievances online. Even vague posts can be misinterpreted. Refrain from posting anything related to your ex, your legal case, or your emotional state.

3. Think Before You Post (or Comment, or Like)

Ask yourself: “Would I be okay with a judge seeing this?” If the answer is no, or even maybe, don’t post it. That includes memes, comments on others’ pages, or reacting to your ex’s content.

4. Don’t Spy on Your Ex

While it might be tempting to monitor your ex’s activity or snoop through mutual friends’ posts, this can lead to poor decisions. Never attempt to hack into their accounts or create fake profiles to gather information. It’s not only unethical, it could be illegal.

5. Instruct Friends and Family to Avoid Posting About You

Even if you’re careful, your friends’ posts can drag you into unwanted territory. Politely ask them not to tag you, post pictures of you, or mention your divorce online.

Can Social Media Be Used in Court?

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Yes. Courts are increasingly accepting social media content as admissible evidence.

However, it must be:

  • Relevant to the case
  • Authenticated (i.e., shown to be a real post from the person in question)
  • Not obtained illegally (e.g., through hacking or misrepresentation)

Attorneys may issue subpoenas for social media data, especially if there’s reason to believe someone is hiding assets, violating the parenting plan, or misrepresenting their situation.

Social Media Do’s and Don’ts During Divorce

✅ Do:

  • Set your accounts to private
  • Be mindful of photos, comments, and tags
  • Assume everything online can become public
  • Speak to your attorney before posting about legal matters

❌ Don’t:

  • Vent about your divorce or ex online
  • Share new relationships before your divorce is finalized
  • Flaunt new purchases or luxury experiences
  • Delete posts without consulting your lawyer (this could be viewed as destroying evidence)

How Masters Law Group Can Help

At Masters Law Group, we understand how stressful and emotionally overwhelming divorce can be, especially when digital evidence is involved.

Our legal team is experienced in handling high-conflict divorces, complex asset divisions, and contested parenting plan cases where social media plays a pivotal role. We help you anticipate potential issues, protect your digital reputation, and build a strategic legal approach tailored to your situation.

Whether you’re concerned about what your ex is posting or unsure about your own online activity, we provide the guidance you need to move forward with confidence.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is difficult enough without social media adding fuel to the fire. While it may feel like an outlet for venting or a way to maintain normalcy, what you share online can have long-lasting implications in your case.

If you’re going through or considering divorce, now is the time to audit your online presence, stay cautious, and seek experienced legal counsel. Don’t let a single post undermine your future.

Contact Masters Law Group

If you’re facing a divorce in Illinois and want a team of skilled, compassionate, and strategic attorneys on your side, Masters Law Group is here to help.

📞 Call us today at (312) 609-1700
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FAQs: Social Media and Divorce

1. Can social media posts really be used as evidence in my divorce case?

Yes. Courts regularly accept social media content as admissible evidence if it’s relevant, properly authenticated, and not obtained illegally. Posts, photos, comments, and even direct messages can be used to support or refute claims related to finances, custody, behavior, or credibility.

2. Should I delete my old posts once my divorce begins?

Not without legal advice. Deleting posts may be seen as destroying evidence, especially if litigation is pending. Always consult with your attorney before removing or modifying social media content. A better approach is to limit your activity and adjust your privacy settings.

3. Can I block or unfriend my ex during the divorce?

Yes, but do so carefully. Blocking your ex may reduce emotional stress and limit potential conflict, but it won’t prevent attorneys from accessing public or shared content. Be mindful of mutual friends who may still see and possibly share your posts.

4. What if my ex is posting lies or attacking me online?

Don’t retaliate. Document the posts with screenshots, and share them with your attorney. You may be able to request a court order to stop the behavior, especially if it’s harassing, threatening, or violates temporary court orders.

5. How should I use social media during my divorce?

Use it sparingly and cautiously. Avoid posting anything about your case, your ex, your finances, parenting, or new relationships. When in doubt, don’t post. Your best move is to focus on your real-life support system and leave the legal matters to your attorney.

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

July marks National Child-Centered Divorce Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about the impact of divorce on children and promoting resources that help families navigate separation in healthier, more supportive ways. 

For families going through divorce, this month serves as a reminder that even in the most difficult transitions, children’s emotional well-being and long-term stability must come first.

At Masters Law Group, we believe that when a marriage ends, it’s not just the couple who feels the emotional and logistical upheaval; it’s the children who often bear the deepest, most lasting effects. That’s why we approach every case with care, clarity, and a commitment to child-centered outcomes. 

In recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month, we’re diving into what a child-centered divorce truly means, why it matters, and how families can move forward with strength, compassion, and the right legal support.

What Is National Child-Centered Divorce Month?

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

National Child-Centered Divorce Month is an annual initiative that brings attention to the unique needs of children during and after divorce. Each July, professionals across the legal, psychological, and parenting fields offer free resources, expert advice, and educational content to help parents prioritize their children’s emotional and developmental needs throughout the divorce process.

The core message is simple but powerful: children should never be caught in the crossfire of divorce. Instead, they should be protected, supported, and given the opportunity to thrive, even when family dynamics shift.

Why a Child-Centered Divorce Matters

Divorce is often a traumatic event for children, particularly if the process is riddled with conflict, poor communication, or unstable living arrangements. A child-centered divorce acknowledges that children are not just passive observers; they are deeply affected participants whose futures are shaped by the actions and decisions of the adults around them.

Here are just a few reasons why putting children first during divorce is so important:

  1. Emotional Stability: Divorce often causes anxiety, sadness, and confusion in children, particularly if they don’t understand what’s happening or feel caught between parents. A child-centered approach helps ensure that children’s emotional needs are prioritized, and steps are taken to provide reassurance and a sense of safety.
  2. Long-Term Mental Health: Research shows that high-conflict divorces can contribute to behavioral problems, depression, and anxiety in children that may persist into adulthood. Minimizing conflict and modeling respectful co-parenting can help lead to healthier long-term outcomes.
  3. Secure Parent-Child Relationships: When parents commit to working together, children are more likely to maintain close relationships with both parents, which supports their emotional development and sense of identity.
  4. Academic and Social Success: Children who experience less turmoil during divorce tend to perform better academically and socially, largely because they are not burdened with stress, confusion, or emotional instability at home.

Key Principles of a Child-Centered Divorce

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

At Masters Law Group, we incorporate the principles of a child-centered divorce into every case we handle. Whether you’re facing a contested divorce, an uncontested divorce, or a civil union dissolution, here are some guiding principles we advocate:

  1. Minimize Conflict: Children do not need to witness arguments or feel pressure to choose sides. Whenever possible, we aim for amicable resolutions, mediation, and communication strategies that lower emotional tension.
  2. Use Age-Appropriate Communication: Telling children about a divorce should be done in a way that matches their developmental level. They need honesty, but also reassurance that they are loved and not to blame for the situation.
  3. Maintain Consistency and Stability: Children thrive on routine. We work with families to create parenting plans that promote consistency in schedules, schooling, and living arrangements.
  4. Encourage Co-Parenting, Not Co-Battling: We guide parents toward cooperative co-parenting solutions where both parties are actively involved and decisions are made in the child’s best interest.
  5. Focus on the Child’s Perspective: Every divorce decision, from allocation of parental responsibilities to holidays to schooling, should be examined through the lens of how it will affect the child, both in the short term and the long run.

Legal Tools for Child-Centered Divorce

Having a legal team that understands and supports a child-centered approach is critical. At Masters Law Group, we use a variety of legal tools and strategies to help ensure the divorce process prioritizes children at every step.

  1. Parenting Plans: One of the most vital documents in a child-centered divorce, a parenting plan outlines how each parent will share time and responsibilities. It addresses holidays, decision-making authority, extracurricular activities, and communication guidelines. We help craft detailed, customized plans that reduce conflict and support your child’s needs.
  2. Mediation Services: Mediation allows couples to resolve differences outside of court, with the help of a neutral third party. This process is generally less adversarial, faster, and more cost-effective than litigation, and it keeps the focus on collaborative solutions.
  3. Allocation of Parental Responsibilities: Illinois has moved away from the traditional “custody” terminology in favor of “allocation of parental responsibilities.” This modern approach reflects a more nuanced understanding of parenting roles. We help you navigate the complex factors involved in these decisions, always advocating for the best interests of your child.
  4. Child Support: Ensuring that children have the financial resources they need to thrive is a critical part of the divorce process. Our team helps establish fair and legally sound child support arrangements based on Illinois state guidelines.

Practical Tips for Parents During Divorce

Beyond the courtroom, there are everyday actions parents can take to ease the transition for their children. Here are some practical tips that align with the child-centered divorce approach:

  1. Keep Adult Conversations Private: Don’t argue or discuss legal matters in front of your children. Shield them from conflict and legal complexities they don’t need to hear.
  2. Validate Their Emotions: Children may feel angry, confused, or afraid. Let them know these feelings are normal and that it’s okay to express them in healthy ways.
  3. Avoid Speaking Negatively About the Other Parent: Even if tensions are high, avoid criticizing your ex in front of your child. Doing so can create confusion and emotional distress.
  4. Stay Involved: Children do best when they maintain strong relationships with both parents. Stay engaged in their education, extracurriculars, and day-to-day life, even if you don’t have primary parenting time.
  5. Seek Professional Support: Sometimes, kids need additional help coping with divorce. Child therapists and family counselors can offer invaluable guidance and emotional support.

How Masters Law Group Supports Families

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

As a family law firm based in Chicagoland (with offices downtown and Oak Brook, DuPage County), Masters Law Group has built a reputation for compassionate, effective representation in all types of divorce and family law matters. Our attorneys, Erin E. Masters and Anthony G. Joseph, are highly experienced in navigating complex divorce cases, particularly those involving children.

We take a personalized, client-focused approach because no two families are alike. Our goal is to resolve your divorce with minimal disruption and maximum care for your children’s well-being. Whether you’re just starting the process or need help modifying an existing parenting plan, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to leave lasting emotional scars on children. By committing to a child-centered approach and working with a compassionate legal team, parents can help ensure that their children emerge from the experience feeling safe, loved, and supported.

As we observe National Child-Centered Divorce Month, let’s collectively raise awareness and advocate for divorce practices that truly protect our most vulnerable family members, our children.

If you or someone you know is going through a divorce and needs legal guidance, Masters Law Group is here to help. Our team is ready to support you with thoughtful strategies that keep your child’s best interests at the heart of every decision.

About Masters Law Group

Located in downtown Chicago, Masters Law Group is proud to offer skilled and personalized representation in divorce and family law matters. Our practice includes divorce, mediation, parental allocation, and international family law. We are committed to helping clients find clarity and resolution during life’s most challenging transitions, especially when children are involved.

Contact us today to schedule a complimentary consultation.

FAQs: National Child-Centered Divorce and Protecting Your Child’s Well-Being

  1. What does it mean to have a “child-centered divorce”?
    A child-centered divorce focuses on minimizing the emotional and psychological impact of divorce on children. It prioritizes their stability, security, and well-being in all decisions, especially regarding parenting time, communication, and conflict resolution. The goal is to foster a peaceful transition that supports your child’s long-term development and happiness.
  2. How can I protect my child from the emotional effects of divorce?
    Some key ways include: avoiding conflict in front of them, maintaining consistent routines, being honest in an age-appropriate way, and helping ensure they feel safe and loved by both parents. Additionally, working with a family law attorney who understands child-centered practices, like the team at Masters Law Group, can help ensure your legal proceedings support your child’s best interests.
  3. What is a parenting plan, and why is it important?
    A parenting plan is a formal agreement that outlines how parents will share responsibilities after a divorce. It includes details on parenting time (formerly known as custody), decision-making authority, communication, holidays, and more. A well-structured parenting plan provides consistency and helps avoid future conflict, giving your child a more stable environment.
  4. Can my child decide which parent to live with?
    In Illinois, children do not have the legal authority to decide where they live, but their preferences may be considered by the court, especially if the child is mature enough to express a reasoned opinion. Ultimately, the court’s decisions are guided by what is in the child’s best interests.
  5. What should I do if my co-parent isn’t cooperating or is creating conflict?
    Ongoing conflict can be harmful to children. If your co-parent isn’t cooperating with the parenting plan or is behaving in a way that negatively affects your child, it’s important to document the issues and consult your attorney. Masters Law Group can help enforce court orders or seek modifications to protect your child’s well-being.

Ask an Attorney: How Do I Protect My Assets in a Divorce?

Divorce can be one of life’s most emotionally and financially turbulent experiences. As relationships unravel, so too can the stability of your financial future if not handled with care. Whether you’re contemplating divorce, in the midst of it, or preparing for life after, understanding how to protect your assets is crucial.

At Masters Law Group, we’ve guided countless clients through complex divorces, helping them secure what’s rightfully theirs while navigating the intricacies of Illinois divorce law. In this blog, we’ll walk you through the essential steps and legal strategies to protect your assets during a divorce.

Understanding Asset Division in IllinoisDivorce

Illinois is an equitable distribution state, not a community property state. That means marital property isn’t necessarily split 50/50 during a divorce—it’s divided fairly, based on a variety of factors.

Key Terms:

  • Marital Property: Assets acquired during the marriage, regardless of who holds the title.
  • Non-Marital Property: Assets acquired before marriage or through inheritance/gift specifically to one spouse.
  • Equitable Distribution: A division based on fairness, not necessarily equal, but just.

Understanding these distinctions is the first step in knowing what assets are at stake and which may be protected.

1. Identify and Classify All Assets

The first thing your divorce attorney will do is work with you to identify, classify, and value your assets.

Common Marital Assets:

  • Joint bank accounts
  • Retirement accounts and pensions
  • The family home
  • Vehicles
  • Businesses
  • Stocks and investments
  • Debt incurred during the marriage

Common Non-Marital Assets:

  • Property owned before marriage
  • Inheritances
  • Gifts from third parties (not between spouses)
  • Personal injury awards (in some cases)

Keep in mind that commingling—or mixing marital and non-marital property—can complicate matters. For example, if you deposited inheritance money into a joint bank account and used it for household expenses, it may be considered marital property.

2. Keep Detailed Records

Documentation is your best defense in a divorce. If you want to protect certain assets, you must prove ownership and origin. This includes:

  • Bank statements
  • Property deeds
  • Business ownership records
  • Proof of inheritance or gifts (such as wills or letters)
  • Loan agreements
  • Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements

These records should go back as far as possible, especially if you’re trying to trace the origin of non-marital property.

3. Consider a Prenuptial or Postnuptial AgreementDivorce

If you haven’t filed for divorce yet, one of the best asset protection tools is a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement.

  • Prenuptial Agreement: Signed before marriage, outlining how property and assets will be divided in the event of divorce.
  • Postnuptial Agreement: Similar to a prenup, but signed during the marriage.

These legal agreements can help define what’s considered separate property and how certain assets (including debts) will be handled. They can also protect business interests and inheritance rights.

While courts can overturn such agreements under specific circumstances (e.g., if signed under duress or found to be unconscionable), a properly drafted agreement is a strong line of defense.

4. Don’t Attempt to Hide Assets

Some people, fearing asset loss, are tempted to hide assets, transfer ownership, or undervalue items. Especially when it comes to hard-to-find digital assets like Cryptocurrency. This is a major mistake.

Courts in Illinois require full and honest financial disclosure during divorce proceedings. If you attempt to conceal property and it’s discovered (which is likely), the court may:

  • Award a larger share to your spouse
  • Impose sanctions or fines
  • Hurt your credibility in all aspects of the case

Work with your attorney to disclose all assets truthfully and create a legal strategy to protect what you can within the bounds of the law.

5. Protect Your Business Interests

If you own a business, divorce can put everything at risk, especially if your spouse played any role in the business or if marital funds were used to grow it.

How to Protect a Business:

  • Keep personal and business finances separate
  • Pay yourself a market-rate salary (to avoid claims that profits were marital gain)
  • Have a clear operating agreement or partnership agreement
  • Obtain a professional valuation of the business
  • Consider a buy-sell agreement

If your spouse is entitled to a share of the business’s value, options include a buyout, structured settlement, or trading off other assets of equal value.

6. Understand Retirement Account Division (QDROs)Divorce

Retirement accounts such as 401(k)s, IRAs, and pensions are often marital property if accrued during the marriage. In Illinois, these can be divided using a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO).

A QDRO allows for the division of a retirement account without triggering taxes or penalties. Each spouse receives their share, and it’s crucial to ensure the order is properly prepared and submitted.

If you have a pension or defined benefit plan, an actuary may be needed to determine the present value for equitable distribution.

7. Separate and Secure Digital Assets

In today’s digital age, your online presence and digital assets may have value, financial and personal. These can include:

  • Cryptocurrencies
  • Online business revenue (e.g., from eCommerce or influencers)
  • NFTs
  • Intellectual property
  • Loyalty rewards or airline miles

Ensure that digital wallets and passwords are protected. Provide proper valuation and documentation, and work with your attorney to address these assets in the divorce settlement.

8. Be Strategic with Joint Accounts

If you and your spouse share joint bank accounts, it’s essential to:

  • Monitor activity carefully
  • Keep copies of all transactions
  • Avoid large withdrawals without agreement or court order

If you’re worried about funds being drained, you may need to file for a temporary restraining order to freeze the account. However, consult with your attorney before taking any action that could be perceived as unilateral or aggressive.

9. Create a Post-Divorce Financial Plan

Protecting your assets isn’t just about the divorce—it’s about your future. A post-divorce financial plan can help you:

  • Reassess your budget
  • Rebuild your savings
  • Protect your credit
  • Reallocate retirement contributions
  • Update insurance and estate planning documents

At Masters Law Group, we often collaborate with financial advisors to help ensure our clients are prepared for the next chapter.

10. Work with a Skilled Divorce AttorneyDivorce

Above all, the best way to protect your assets in a divorce is to partner with an experienced attorney who knows Illinois family law.

At Masters Law Group, our team provides:

  • Strategic guidance tailored to your situation
  • Expertise in high-net-worth and complex divorces
  • Mediation and litigation services
  • Asset valuation and financial disclosure support

We help you navigate negotiations with clarity and confidence, always working toward a fair and favorable outcome.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can I protect my inheritance in a divorce?

Yes—inheritances are generally considered non-marital property if they are not commingled with marital assets. Keeping it in a separate account and avoiding using it for marital expenses can protect it.

  • What happens to the house in a divorce?

If the house was purchased during the marriage, it’s likely marital property. The court may award it to one party, order a sale, or arrange a buyout. If one spouse owned it before marriage, it may be considered separate property unless marital funds were used to pay the mortgage or improve it.

  • What if my spouse is hiding assets?

Your attorney can use legal tools such as discovery, subpoenas, and forensic accountants to uncover hidden assets. Courts penalize dishonesty, and such tactics can backfire on the hiding spouse.

  • How can I protect my business from being divided in a divorce?

If your business was started before the marriage or funded solely by non-marital assets, it may be protected. However, if it grew significantly during the marriage or marital funds were used, your spouse may have a claim. To protect your business, maintain detailed financial records, avoid commingling personal and business funds, and consider using a buy-sell agreement or valuing the business for a potential buyout during divorce proceedings.

  • Is debt divided the same way as assets in a divorce?

Yes—under Illinois’ equitable distribution laws, both assets and debts acquired during the marriage are divided fairly. This includes credit card debt, mortgages, auto loans, and personal loans. It’s important to identify whether the debt is marital or non-marital and to work with your attorney to ensure you are not held responsible for debts that aren’t yours.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is never easy, but protecting your financial future is possible with the right strategy and legal guidance. At Masters Law Group, we understand the emotional and financial complexities of asset division, and we’re here to help you make smart, strategic decisions.

From initial consultation to final settlement, our skilled attorneys will stand by your side to ensure you keep what’s rightfully yours and emerge with a solid foundation for your future.

Schedule a Consultation

Ready to discuss your case with an experienced Illinois divorce attorney? Contact Masters Law Group today to schedule a confidential consultation and start building a plan to protect your assets and your peace of mind.

Is Your Marriage Broken Beyond Repair? Top Divorce Lawyer Reveals 7 Shocking Signs It’s Time to End Things

Marriage is a journey—one filled with highs, lows, and everything in between. But what happens when the lows seem permanent, and the bond you once shared feels irreparably damaged?

At Masters Law Group, we understand that making the decision to divorce is never easy. If you’re questioning whether your marriage is beyond repair, there are red flags you shouldn’t ignore. Our team of experienced divorce attorneys in Chicago and DuPage County is here to help you make informed, confident choices about your future.

Here are seven surprising signs it may be time to seek legal guidance—and potentially, a fresh start.

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1. Communication Has Completely Broken Down

If honest conversations have been replaced with silence, sarcasm, or constant arguments, your marriage may be in dangerous territory. Lack of communication erodes emotional intimacy and often leads to misunderstandings, resentment, and distance that feels impossible to close.

Learn more about how we handle high-conflict divorce cases on our Divorce Services page.

2. You’re Living Like Roommates, Not Partners

If your relationship feels more like a shared living arrangement than a marriage—with no shared goals, affection, or connection—it could indicate deeper issues. Couples who function as cohabitants rather than partners often drift so far apart that reconciliation becomes unlikely.

3. There’s a Lack of Trust or Repeated Betrayals

Infidelity, financial secrecy, or other forms of betrayal can permanently damage trust. While some couples can rebuild, ongoing dishonesty often signals that the foundation of the relationship has crumbled.

In these cases, it’s important to protect your personal and financial interests. If you’re in Illinois, our attorneys can help you navigate complex matters like asset division and spousal support.

4. You Stay Together “For the Kids”—But It’s Not Working

Many parents remain in unhappy marriages for the sake of their children. While well-intentioned, children are often more affected by toxic environments than by two separate, happy households. If the marital conflict is ongoing, it may be healthier for everyone to move forward.

Masters Law Group offers compassionate support and guidance in cases involving parenting time and allocation of parental responsibilities.

5. You Fantasize About Life Without Your Spouse—Constantly

It’s normal to imagine different futures from time to time, but if you regularly dream about life without your spouse—and those dreams bring you relief or excitement—it could be a sign that your emotional connection is gone.

6. There’s Emotional or Verbal Abuse

Abuse isn’t always physical. Emotional manipulation, control, gaslighting, and verbal degradation are serious issues that can make staying in a marriage unsafe or unhealthy. You deserve to feel respected and secure in your relationship.

If you’re in immediate danger or need to discuss your legal options confidentially, our team can help you explore orders of protection and other legal safeguards.DuPage Divorce Lawyer

7. You’ve Tried Counseling or Therapy Without Progress

Therapy can be incredibly helpful—but only if both partners are willing to engage. If you’ve exhausted efforts to repair your marriage through counseling and nothing has changed, it might be time to consider next steps.

At Masters Law Group, we believe in informed decision-making. That’s why we offer personalized consultations to explore your options and help you determine whether divorce, legal separation, or mediation is right for you.

Considering Divorce in Illinois, Chicago, or DuPage County?

Whether you’re located in downtown Chicago or the suburbs of DuPage County, our team is here to support you with professionalism, discretion, and care. We handle a wide range of family law matters throughout Illinois and have deep experience working within both Cook County and DuPage County court systems.

Our services include:

Final Thoughts

Ending a marriage is never an easy decision. But recognizing the signs of a broken relationship can be the first step toward healing and a better future. If you’re considering divorce in Illinois and need legal guidance you can trust, Masters Law Group is here to help.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How do I know if it’s time to get a divorce?
If your marriage is marked by ongoing conflict, lack of communication, emotional disconnection, or unresolved issues despite counseling, it may be time to explore your legal options. Speaking with a qualified divorce lawyer in Illinois can help you better understand your rights and next steps.

What is the divorce process like in Illinois?
In Illinois, divorce (legally known as “dissolution of marriage”) can be contested or uncontested. The process generally includes filing a petition, serving your spouse, disclosing financial information, negotiating or litigating terms, and finalizing the judgment. Our Chicago divorce attorneys guide you through every phase with clarity and compassion.

Do I need a lawyer to get a divorce in DuPage County?
While it’s not legally required, working with a knowledgeable DuPage County divorce lawyer can ensure that your interests are protected—especially when dealing with complex issues like child custody, asset division, or spousal maintenance.

How long does it take to finalize a divorce in Illinois?
The timeline varies based on the complexity of your case and whether it’s contested. An uncontested divorce in Illinois can take as little as a few months, while contested cases may take a year or more. An experienced attorney can help streamline the process.

Can I get divorced if my spouse doesn’t agree?
Yes. Illinois is a no-fault divorce state, which means you do not need your spouse’s consent. If one party believes the marriage is irretrievably broken, that’s sufficient legal grounds for divorce.

What should I bring to my initial divorce consultation?
Bring any relevant documents such as prenuptial agreements, financial records, custody arrangements, or court orders. This helps your divorce attorney evaluate your situation and provide tailored legal advice.

Top Illinois Divorce Attorney: Helping Children Deal with the Stress of a Divorce

As a top divorce attorney in Illinois, Masters Law Group understands that ending a marriage isn’t just a legal event—it’s an emotional journey that affects the entire family; especially children.

Divorce can take a heavy emotional toll on children, often leaving them feeling anxious, confused, or withdrawn. That’s why it’s crucial to have a legal team that not only protects your rights but also prioritizes your child’s well-being. Our mission goes beyond legal representation. We’re here to help families find clarity, stability, and support during one of life’s most challenging transitions.

In this blog, we’ll explore how divorce impacts children, ways parents can reduce stress during the process, and how working with a top divorce attorney can make a lasting difference.

The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Children

Divorce is considered one of the most significant life stressors for children. It can upend their sense of security, alter daily routines, and reshape family dynamics profoundly. While every child responds differently, the psychological impact of divorce often manifests in a few common ways. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, children may show:

  • Anxiety or depression
  • Anger or irritability
  • Withdrawal from social activities
  • Academic struggles
  • Sleep disturbances

These signs can emerge gradually and vary based on the child’s age, personality, emotional maturity, and how the parents navigate the separation process. Children may also struggle with uncertainty and fear about the future—questions like “Where will I live?” or “Will I still see both parents?” can weigh heavily on their minds. That’s why proactive parental support and a well-structured parenting plan are essential.

When to Seek Support

When to Seek Additional Support

Even with your best efforts, some children may need extra help navigating this emotional upheaval. Watch for signs such as:

  • Prolonged sadness or anxiety.
  • Behavioral regression.
  • Academic decline or loss of interest in activities.
  • Self-harm or talk of hopelessness.
  • Persistent anger or defiance.

If these signs persist, early intervention through a licensed child therapist or counselor can be instrumental in helping them develop healthy coping strategies and emotional resilience. At Masters Law Group, our top divorce attorneys can help you identify signs that your child may need professional support and connect you with trusted local resources.

Helping Children Cope: What Parents Can Do

While legal matters are being resolved, it’s crucial to address the emotional needs of your children. Here are key ways parents can help reduce the stress of divorce:

1. Maintain Open Communication

Children need age-appropriate explanations and reassurances. Let them know the divorce is not their fault and both parents still love them. Use simple, clear language. Avoid blaming the other parent or oversharing adult issues.

2. Create Consistency and Routine

Stability helps children feel secure. Keep school routines, meal times, and bedtimes consistent across households when possible.

3. Encourage Emotional Expression

Give your child permission to feel sadness, anger, or fear. Help them find healthy outlets such as journaling, art, or talking to a therapist.

4. Avoid Conflict in Front of Children

One of the most damaging aspects of divorce is exposing children to parental conflict. Shield them from arguments, legal discussions, and emotional outbursts.

5. Co-Parent Respectfully

Work toward a co-parenting plan that prioritizes the child’s needs. Be cooperative, flexible, and respectful in your communication with your ex-spouse.

The Role of a Top Divorce Attorney in Supporting Families

Working with a top divorce attorney can help significantly influence how a divorce affects your child. At Masters Law Group, we prioritize family-focused legal solutions that support emotional and legal outcomes.

Legal Tools That Help Protect Children During Divorce

In any divorce involving children, the court’s primary concern is the best interest of the child. Fortunately, there are several legal mechanisms in Illinois designed to help protect children during this sensitive time and help families establish a clear path forward.

1. Parenting Plans

A parenting plan is a written agreement that outlines how parents will raise their child after separation or divorce. This plan typically includes:

  • A detailed schedule of parenting time.
  • How major decisions will be made regarding the child’s education, healthcare, and religious upbringing.
  • Guidelines for communication between parents and with the child.
  • Provisions for resolving future disputes or modifying the plan.

A comprehensive parenting plan helps eliminate ambiguity, reduce conflict, and give children the structure they need to feel secure and supported.

2. Allocation of Parental Responsibilities

Illinois law no longer uses the term “custody.” Instead, the focus is on the allocation of parental responsibilities, which refers to how decision-making authority is shared or divided between parents. The court evaluates factors such as:

  • The child’s relationship with each parent.
  • Each parent can make decisions in the child’s best interest.
  • The willingness of each parent to facilitate a relationship between the child and the other parent.

By clearly defining who is responsible for what, the law promotes consistency in the child’s life, even in two separate households.

3. Mediation

Mediation is a confidential process where a neutral third party helps parents reach agreements on issues like parenting time and decision-making responsibilities. It is often required in contested family law matters and offers several benefits:

  • Encourages cooperation instead of confrontation.
  • Minimizes courtroom stress and delays.
  • Helps parents create mutually beneficial solutions.
  • Often results in better long-term co-parenting relationships.

Most importantly, by reducing parental conflict, mediation can protect children from emotional distress caused by adversarial litigation.

4. Guardian ad Litem (GAL)

In high-conflict cases or when a child’s safety or well-being is in question, the court may appoint a Guardian ad Litem (GAL)—a specially trained attorney who represents the best interests of the child. A GAL will:

  • Reviewing important documents, including school records, medical reports, and family history.
  • Evaluating the family dynamic and the child’s unique needs.
  • Making a formal recommendation to the court regarding parenting time and decision-making authority.

Work With Masters Law GroupTop Divorce Attorney

At Masters Law Group, Erin E. Masters is a court-appointed Child Representative and has experience advocating for children in these high-conflict matters. Further, she has also been appointed by the Circuit Court of Cook County to mediate complex family law cases. Since 2016, Ms. Masters has been named “Rising Star” by Illinois Super Lawyers and has been named as an “Emerging Lawyer” by Leading Lawyers. In 2020, Ms. Masters was named “Super Lawyer” by Illinois Super Lawyers.

Partner Anthony G. Joseph is an active trial lawyer whose practice focuses exclusively on Family Law, with a particular emphasis on International Child Abduction and cross-border custody issues pursuant to the Hague Convention of 1980 and the UCCJEA.Helping children deal with the stress of divorce requires compassion, consistency, and a proactive legal strategy. With the right support system—including working with a top divorce attorney—you can guide your family toward a healthier future. At Masters Law Group, we don’t just handle your case. We help you move forward. Here’s how we stand apart:

  • Client-Centered Representation: We take the time to understand your unique family dynamics and tailor our legal strategies accordingly.
  • Child-Centered Advocacy: Our attorneys have experience navigating parenting time (visitation) and parental responsibilities.
  • Mediation: Whenever possible, we recommend mediation to avoid lengthy court battles that increase stress for children.
  • Comprehensive Support: We offer resources and referrals to child therapists, counselors, and family coaches to help families adjust during and after divorce.

Let us help you take the next step with confidence. Contact our team today to schedule your complimentary consultation.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

How can I explain divorce to my child without causing more stress?
Use age-appropriate language, be honest but reassuring, and emphasize that they are not to blame. Avoid involving them in legal or emotional conflicts. At Masters Law Group, we provide guidance on navigating these sensitive conversations. Our top divorce attorneys connect you with trusted child therapists or family counselors to support your child’s emotional well-being throughout the divorce process.

Can children choose which parent they want to live with in Illinois?

Courts consider the child’s wishes, especially if they are mature enough to express a preference, but the final decision is based on their best interests. Our top divorce attorneys are well-versed in presenting the child’s preferences to the court in a respectful and strategic way while ensuring that your case is focused on the overall well-being and best interests of your child.

How can I co-parent effectively with a difficult ex-spouse?
Focus on respectful communication, consistency in household rules, and always prioritizing your child’s needs. Consider using a parenting app to facilitate communication. Our top divorce attorneys provide legal frameworks and resources for successful co-parenting—even in high-conflict situations. We also offer mediation services to help you and your ex-spouse find common ground and reduce tension.

Should I take my child to a therapist during the divorce?
If your child is showing signs of stress, anxiety, or behavioral changes, therapy can provide a safe space to express their feelings and develop coping strategies. At Masters Law Group, we can recommend trusted mental health professionals who specialize in working with children of divorce and help incorporate supportive arrangements into your parenting plan.

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you need legal assistance, please contact the qualified attorneys at Masters Law Group. Our firm can help you handle your family law case in Illinois, including divorce, custody, and mediation services.

Navigating Divorce: Prioritizing Mental Health During Stress Awareness Month

April is Stress Awareness Month, a crucial to highlight the importance of self-care, coping strategies, and professional support during a divorce. Divorce can trigger a range of emotions, including grief, anxiety, anger, and sadness. The American Psychological Association (APA) recognizes divorce as one of life’s most stressful events.

At Masters Law Group, we understand the emotional and legal burdens of ending a marriage. We aim to provide compassionate legal guidance while helping you prioritize your mental well-being. Here’s what you need to know.

The Intersection of Divorce and Stress

Divorce in Illinois and across the U.S. is more than just a legal process—it’s an emotional and psychological upheaval that can significantly impact mental and physical well-being. Feelings of grief, anger, anxiety, and depression are common as individuals navigate the uncertainty of life after separation. Recent studies have reinforced the connection between marital status and health outcomes:​

  • A 2024 study published in Nature Human Behavior analyzed data from over 100,000 individuals across seven countries and found that unmarried individuals have a 79% higher risk of depression, widows face a 64% increased risk, and divorcees have a 99% higher likelihood of suffering from depression compared to married individuals. (​Nature Human Behavior).
  • Another study highlighted that married individuals tend to live longer than their unmarried counterparts, with men benefiting more from the health advantages of marriage. (​Harvard Health).

Those going through a divorce often face a range of stressors, including:

  • Emotional Distress: Coping with feelings of loss, uncertainty, and fear of the future.
  • Financial Anxiety: Managing concerns about asset division, spousal support, and financial security.
  • Parental Concerns: Addressing worries about parental responsibilities, co-parenting dynamics, and the emotional impact on children.
  • Legal Pressure: Handling the stress of court proceedings, negotiations, and complex legal paperwork.

Prioritizing mental health during this time is crucial. Taking proactive steps to manage stress can help individuals make better decisions, protect their well-being, and confidently transition into a new phase of life. Let’s take a look at some effective strategies for managing stress during divorce.

1. Seek Professional Support

While a divorce attorney is crucial in guiding you through legal complexities, emotional support is equally as important for helping manage stress and making sound decisions. Divorce can be a turbulent time, and having a strong support system can make a significant difference in your overall well-being. Consider working with:

  • Therapists and Counselors: Professional therapy provides a safe space to process emotions and develop coping strategies.
  • Support Groups: Connecting with others who have experienced divorce can provide comfort and shared wisdom.
  • Mediators: If you’re looking for a less adversarial way to settle your divorce, working with a trained mediator can help you and your spouse reach a fair agreement while minimizing stress and conflict.

2. Practice Self-Care

Self-care is often overlooked during divorce, yet it plays a vital role in maintaining emotional stability. Taking small, intentional steps to care for yourself can help reduce stress, improve resilience, and provide a sense of control amidst uncertainty. Here are a few ways to incorporate self-care into your daily routine:

  • Prioritize Physical Health: Regular exercise, nutritious meals, and sufficient sleep can reduce stress and improve mood.
  • Engage in Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as yoga, meditation, and deep breathing can help regulate emotions.
  • Set Boundaries: Limit discussions about divorce outside of legal settings to avoid constant emotional distress.

3. Focus on What You Can Control

One of the most challenging aspects of divorce is the uncertainty it brings. From legal proceedings to financial changes and emotional adjustments, it’s easy to feel powerless. Focusing on what you can control can help ease stress:

  • Organize Legal Documents: Stay on top of paperwork and deadlines to prevent added stress.
  • Make Future Plans: Set new personal and professional goals to create a sense of direction.
  • Establish a Routine: Consistency in daily activities can provide stability amid uncertainty.

4. Consider Alternative Dispute Resolution

Litigation can be time-consuming and emotionally draining. Alternative dispute resolution (ADR) methods can help couples work collaboratively with the guidance of a neutral third party. ADR can:

  • Reduce conflict and hostility.
  • Provide more control over the outcome.
  • Lead to quicker and more cost-effective resolutions.

A well-rounded team of legal professionals can help provide both legal guidance and emotional support during divorce. Masters Law Group has decades of experience in mediation and alternative dispute resolution methods for divorce, helping clients reach amicable agreements while minimizing stress.

5. Protect Your Children’s Mental Health

Divorce can be particularly challenging for children, as they may struggle with changes in family dynamics. To help support their emotional well-being:

  • Maintain Open Communication: Encourage children to express their feelings and concerns.
  • Avoid Conflict in Front of Them: Help shield children from legal disputes and negative discussions about the other parent.
  • Establish Consistency: Keep routines as stable as possible to provide reassurance and security.

divorce attorneyHow Masters Law Group Can Help

At Masters Law Group, we understand that divorce encompasses more than just legal proceedings; it’s a profound personal journey. Our comprehensive services are designed to help support you through every facet of this transition:

  • Personalized Legal Representation: We recognize that each divorce case is unique. Our award-winning attorneys provide tailored legal strategies to address your circumstances, helping ensure your rights and interests are protected.
  • Mediation Services: Our mediators help facilitate constructive dialogues to reach mutually beneficial agreements for couples seeking amicable resolutions, potentially reducing the emotional toll of contentious litigation.
  • Child-Centric Approaches: When children are involved, their well-being is paramount. We advocate for arrangements that serve the child’s best interests, striving to help minimize disruption to their lives.
  • Post-Divorce Support: Our commitment extends beyond the finalization of your divorce. We assist with post-divorce disputes and modifications, recognizing that circumstances can evolve over time.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is a significant life transition that affects emotional, financial, and physical well-being. While stress is inevitable, taking proactive steps to protect your mental health can make the process more manageable. At Masters Law Group, we are committed to providing compassionate legal support while helping clients prioritize their well-being.

If you need assistance with divorce proceedings or mediation, we are here to help. Contact us today to set up your complimentary consultation.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ): Navigating Divorce & Stress

1. How can I reduce stress when communicating with my ex-spouse?

Establish clear boundaries and communicate through written messages or co-parenting apps when necessary. Keep conversations focused on important matters and avoid emotional confrontations.

2. What legal options do I have to avoid a stressful courtroom battle?

You may consider mediation or collaborative divorce, which can help resolve disputes outside of court while maintaining a cooperative approach. Masters Law Group has experience in handling these alternative dispute resolution methods, helping clients achieve fair outcomes with less conflict and emotional strain.

3. How can I manage financial stress during a divorce?

Create a realistic budget to help you navigate this transition and plan for the future. Understanding your rights regarding asset division, spousal support, and potential tax implications is also important. At Masters Law Group, we provide legal guidance to help protect your financial interests and secure a fair settlement that supports your long-term stability.

4. Can my attorney help me with emotional stress?

While attorneys focus on legal matters, a compassionate divorce attorney can offer guidance and refer you to mental health professionals with experience in divorce-related stress. At Masters Law Group, we take a holistic approach, advocating for your legal rights while recognizing the emotional challenges of divorce.

Disclaimer: The information provided in this blog is for general informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice. Every divorce case is unique, and legal outcomes vary based on individual circumstances. For specific legal guidance, please consult the divorce attorneys at Masters Law Group.

Who Gets What? Asset Division & Spousal Support in Illinois

Divorce isn’t just about signing papers—it’s about protecting your future. Whether you’re worried about who keeps the house, how retirement accounts are divided, or whether spousal support applies to your situation, understanding Illinois laws on asset division and alimony is essential to helping protect what’s rightfully yours.

At Masters Law Group, we’ve guided countless Illinois residents through complex divorce cases, making sure they receive a fair and favorable outcome. In this blog, we’ll break down key factors that influence property division and spousal support so you can make informed decisions about your future.

Let’s dive in.

Illinois Asset Division: How Property is Divided

Illinois follows an equitable distribution model, meaning property isn’t always split 50/50. Instead, the court looks at various factors to determine a fair division of assets and whether one spouse will receive financial support. Without proper guidance, you could risk losing what’s rightfully yours or paying more than necessary.

What Is Considered Marital Property?

Under Illinois law, marital property includes all assets and debts acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title. This may include:

  • The marital home.
  • Bank accounts and investment portfolios.
  • Retirement accounts (401(k), IRAs, pensions).
  • Vehicles.
  • Business interests.
  • Debts, including mortgages and credit card balances.

Non-marital property, on the other hand, generally includes:

  • Assets owned before marriage.
  • Gifts or inheritances received by one spouse.
  • Property acquired after a legal separation.
  • A prenuptial or postnuptial agreement protects certain assets.

It’s crucial to properly classify marital and non-marital assets to help ensure a fair distribution. Working alongside a divorce attorney can help you navigate this issue.

How Does the Court Decide Asset Division?

Because Illinois is an equitable distribution state, the court considers several factors when dividing assets, including:

  • The length of the marriage.
  • Each spouse’s financial contributions.
  • The value of the property assigned to each spouse.
  • The economic circumstances of each spouse post-divorce.
  • Any existing prenuptial or postnuptial agreements.
  • Tax consequences of property division.

While some cases are settled amicably through negotiation or mediation, others require litigation to resolve disputes. Masters Law Group provides skilled advocacy to help protect your best interests, whether inside or outside the courtroom.

Understanding Spousal Maintenance in Illinois

Spousal maintenance, or alimony, is designed to help the lower-earning spouse maintain financial stability after divorce. While not every divorce results in spousal support, Illinois courts may award maintenance based on specific factors. Here are just a few of those factors:

  • Current and future income of each party.
  • Current and future financial needs of each party.
  • Standard of living during the marriage.
  • Length of Marriage.
  • Marital agreements such as prenup or postnup.

Illinois law provides a formula for determining maintenance in cases where combined gross income is under $500,000:

(33% of the paying spouse’s net income) – (25% of the receiving spouse’s net income) = Maintenance Amount
The recipient’s income (including maintenance) cannot exceed 40% of the couple’s combined income.

However, judges can deviate from these calculations in unique circumstances. It’s important to remember that each case is different; as such, the court considers a wide range of factors. Working alongside a trusted divorce attorney can help you navigate your spousal maintenance needs.

Types of Spousal Support in Illinois

Not all spousal support is the same. Illinois law recognizes different types of maintenance, depending on the marriage’s circumstances and the spouses’ financial needs. The type of support awarded can vary based on factors such as the length of the marriage, each spouse’s earning potential, and the financial independence goal of the lower-earning spouse.

Whether the support is temporary, long-term, or subject to modification, the court carefully evaluates each case to determine the most appropriate type of maintenance. Here are the primary forms of spousal support recognized in Illinois:

  1. Temporary Maintenance: Awarded during divorce proceedings to support the lower-earning spouse until a final settlement is reached.
  2. Fixed-Term Maintenance: Ordered for a set period, typically when the receiving spouse is expected to become financially independent.
  3. Reviewable Maintenance: Subject to periodic review, allowing modifications based on changes in financial circumstances.
  4. Permanent Maintenance – Rare but awarded in long-term marriages where one spouse cannot support themselves due to age or health.
  5. Rehabilitative Maintenance – Provided to help a spouse pursue education or job training to regain financial independence.

Modifying Spousal Maintenance in Illinois

Divorce is a complex and deeply personal matter, and financial circumstances can change over time. If you need to modify a spousal maintenance (alimony) agreement, having an experienced attorney is essential. In Illinois, maintenance awards can be adjusted under certain conditions, including:

  • If the paying spouse’s income goes down.
  • If the paying spouse or recipient spouse experiences a dramatic increase in their cost of living (e.g., unexpected illness or medical bills).
  • If the recipient-spouse cannot become self-supporting or experiences other financial strains beyond control.

If your financial situation has changed and you need to update or modify your maintenance agreement, contact the trusted divorce attorneys at Masters Law Group for skilled legal guidance.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is a challenging process, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you are concerned about asset division, spousal support, or enforcing your legal rights, Masters Law Group is here to provide skilled legal guidance and dedicated representation.

Our team understands the complexities of Illinois family law and will work tirelessly to help you achieve a fair and favorable outcome. If you are facing divorce and need experienced legal counsel, don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Contact us today to set up your complimentary consultation.

Illinois Asset Division & Spousal Support FAQs

How can I guarantee a fair division of assets in my divorce?

Our attorneys will work closely with you to identify and classify marital and non-marital property. We advocate for a fair distribution that protects your best interests, whether through divorce mediation or litigation.

What if my spouse is hiding assets?

Hidden assets can significantly impact property division and spousal support calculations. At Masters Law Group, we use forensic accountants, legal discovery tools, and subpoenas to:

  • Uncover hidden bank accounts, cryptocurrency, and offshore investments.
  • Investigate underreported income or concealed business earnings.
  • Help ensure complete financial transparency before settling.

If you suspect your spouse is concealing assets, seeking legal guidance immediately is crucial.

Can I modify or terminate spousal support?

You can petition for a modification if there’s a significant change in financial circumstances. Common reasons include:

  • Job loss or income reduction of the paying spouse.
  • Remarriage or cohabitation of the receiving spouse.
  • Retirement or health issues affecting financial stability.

Our trusted divorce attorneys can help you file a modification request, provide supporting documentation, and represent you in court if necessary.

Will I have to go to court for my divorce settlement?

Not necessarily. Many cases are resolved through mediation or negotiation, avoiding lengthy court battles. However, our award-winning attorneys are prepared to advocate for you in court if litigation is necessary.

Legal Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Each case is unique, and laws are subject to change. If you are facing a legal issue, consult with the qualified family law attorneys at Masters Law Group to discuss your situation.