The Most Common FAQs About Divorce

Divorce can be one of the most emotionally and financially challenging life transitions anyone faces. Whether you’re considering filing for divorce or already in the process, understanding your rights and the legal framework can help you make more informed decisions. 

At Masters Law Group, we understand that every family situation is unique, and so are the questions that arise. That’s why we’ve put together this comprehensive guide addressing the most frequently asked questions about divorce in Illinois.

Divorce FAQs

1. What Are the Grounds for Divorce in Illinois?

Illinois is a “no-fault” divorce state. This means that the only legally recognized ground for divorce is irreconcilable differences, or the inability to get along with no hope for reconciliation. You don’t need to prove infidelity, abuse, or any other misconduct to file.

However, fault can still play a role in related matters like property division or parenting time, especially if one party’s behavior negatively impacts the children or marital assets.

2. What’s the Difference Between Contested and Uncontested Divorce?

Masters Law Group can help you determine the best route for your situation and protect your interests every step of the way.

3. Do I Need an Attorney to Get Divorced in Illinois?

While it is legally possible to get a divorce without an attorney, it’s not recommended, especially if children, significant assets, or spousal support are involved. Divorce laws are complex, and without proper legal guidance, you could end up with an unfair settlement or make mistakes that delay the process.

Working with an experienced family law attorney from Masters Law Group helps ensure your rights are protected and your future is secured.

4. What Happens to Our Property and Assets in a Divorce?

Illinois follows the principle of equitable distribution. This does not mean assets are split 50/50, but rather in a manner the court deems fair. Marital property is typically divided, while separate property remains with the original owner.

  • Marital Property: Assets acquired during the marriage (homes, income, retirement accounts, etc.)
  • Separate Property: Assets owned before the marriage or received as gifts/inheritance

A judge will consider factors like each spouse’s financial circumstances, contributions to the marriage, and parenting plan arrangements when dividing assets.

5. How Is Debt Handled in a Divorce?

Just like assets, debts incurred during the marriage are generally considered marital and are divided equitably. This includes mortgages, credit card debt, auto loans, and other shared liabilities.

If a debt is in one spouse’s name but was used for family purposes, it may still be considered marital debt. Protecting your financial future means understanding and negotiating how these obligations are split.

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6. What Are the Laws Around Allocation of Parental Responsibility

Illinois law uses the term allocation of parental responsibilities instead of “custody.” Parenting responsibilities are divided into:

  • Decision-Making: Who makes decisions about education, healthcare, religion, and extracurriculars
  • Parenting Time: Where and when the child spends time with each parent

Courts always prioritize the child’s best interests, considering factors like:

  • The wishes of the child (depending on age/maturity)
  • The relationship between the child and each parent
  • The child’s adjustment to home, school, and community
  • The mental and physical health of all parties

At Masters Law Group, we are experienced in developing customized parenting plans that reflect your family’s needs and serve your child’s best interests.

7. How Is Child Support Calculated in Illinois?

Illinois uses an income shares model to calculate child support. This model considers both parents’ income and the number of overnights each parent has with the child.

Support may also include expenses for:

  • Health insurance
  • Childcare
  • Extracurricular activities
  • Educational expenses

Our attorneys use state-approved tools to estimate child support and advocate for fair arrangements that reflect your family’s financial realities.

8. Can I Modify a Child Support or Parenting Plan Agreement?

Yes. Life changes, and Illinois law allows modifications under certain circumstances. To request a change, you must show a substantial change in circumstances, such as a job loss, relocation, or change in the child’s needs.

At Masters Law Group, we guide clients through modification requests and work to help ensure updated arrangements meet your needs and comply with Illinois law.

9. What Is Spousal Support (Alimony), and How Is It Determined?

Spousal maintenance, formerly known as alimony, is not automatic in Illinois divorces. The court evaluates several factors, including:

  • The length of the marriage
  • The standard of living established
  • Each spouse’s income and earning potential
  • Contributions to the household (including homemaking)
  • The recipient spouse’s need for education or training

If awarded, maintenance is calculated based on a formula outlined in Illinois law, unless the court decides otherwise.

10. Can My Spouse and I Use Mediation or Collaborative Divorce?

Yes. Many couples choose alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation or collaborative divorce to settle their issues outside of court.

  • Mediation involves a neutral third party helping you reach agreements.
  • Collaborative Divorce involves both parties hiring divorce attorneys who work cooperatively to resolve issues.

These approaches can save time, money, and emotional distress while keeping you in control of the process.

Masters Law Group offers mediation and collaborative law services tailored to fit your unique situation.

11. Can I Move Out of State With My Child After Divorce?

Under Illinois law, you cannot relocate a child out of state, or more than 25 miles away from the child’s current residence within Illinois, without court approval or the other parent’s consent.

If relocation is contested, the court will weigh several factors to determine whether the move is in the child’s best interest.

If you’re considering relocation, it’s crucial to work with a skilled family law attorney to navigate the legal steps involved.

12. What if My Spouse Won’t Cooperate With the Divorce?

Even if your spouse refuses to participate, you can still obtain a divorce. The court may proceed with a default judgment if your spouse does not respond after being properly served.

While it may take more time, you do not need your spouse’s permission to divorce. At Masters Law Group, we help clients move forward confidently, even in high-conflict or uncooperative situations.

13. Will My Divorce Be Public?

Divorce proceedings in Illinois are public record. However, certain sensitive documents, such as financial affidavits and parenting plans, can sometimes be sealed or kept confidential upon request.

If privacy is a priority, Masters Law Group can help minimize exposure and protect your personal information wherever possible.

14. How Much Does a Divorce Cost in Illinois?

The cost of a divorce can vary widely depending on the complexity of your case and whether it’s contested or uncontested. Some of the main factors that influence cost include:

  • Whether you and your spouse agree on key issues like asset division, child support, and parenting time
  • The need for expert witnesses (such as financial analysts or child psychologists)
  • Court filing fees and other administrative costs
  • The amount of time your attorney needs to spend on negotiations, court appearances, and document preparation

At Masters Law Group, we’re committed to transparency and efficiency. We’ll provide a clear fee structure, keep you informed of your legal options, and work diligently to resolve your case in the most cost-effective manner possible. We also offer flexible payment options for qualifying clients.

15. What Should I Do First if I’m Thinking About Divorce?

If you’re considering divorce, start by:

  1. Consulting an attorney to understand your rights
  2. Gathering financial documents (bank records, tax returns, etc.)
  3. Creating a plan for children if applicable
  4. Considering where you will live

The most important first step is to speak with an experienced divorce attorney who can help you assess your options and build a strategy that protects your interests.

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Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone

Divorce is never easy, but you don’t have to go through it alone. The legal and emotional complexities can feel overwhelming, but with the right support, you can move forward with confidence.

At Masters Law Group, we provide compassionate, skilled legal guidance tailored to your unique needs. Whether you’re facing a high-net-worth divorce, navigating parenting plans, or seeking spousal support, our experienced attorneys are here to help.

Contact us today to schedule a complimentary consultation.


More About Masters Law Group

Whether you’re in the early stages of considering divorce or are already deep in the process, choosing the right legal partner can make all the difference in your outcome and your peace of mind. At Masters Law Group, we’re more than just legal professionals; we are dedicated advocates committed to helping individuals and families navigate complex emotional and legal terrain with clarity and confidence.

Here’s how our team stands apart:

✔ Client-Centered Approach

At Masters Law Group, we recognize that every divorce is unique. There is no “one-size-fits-all” solution. That’s why we take a personalized approach to every case, taking the time to understand your goals, concerns, and family dynamics. We listen first, and then create a legal strategy tailored to meet your specific needs.

Whether you’re seeking a peaceful resolution through mediation or preparing for a contested courtroom battle, we adapt our approach to fit your circumstances.

✔ Comprehensive Divorce Representation

From the initial filing to the final judgment, we provide end-to-end support in all aspects of divorce, including:

  • Division of Marital Assets and Debts
  • Spousal Maintenance (Alimony)
  • Child Support and Parenting Time Agreements
  • Post-Divorce Modifications
  • Relocation Petitions
  • Domestic Violence and Orders of Protection

We also have significant experience handling complex, high-net-worth divorces and international family law issues, including Hague Convention matters.

✔ Skilled Mediation and Collaborative Law Services

We know that litigation isn’t always the best or most efficient route for families. When appropriate, we offer mediation and collaborative divorce options that allow you to resolve disputes privately, amicably, and cost-effectively without sacrificing your legal rights or financial future.

Our attorneys are trained in alternative dispute resolution and have a strong track record of helping clients reach favorable outcomes outside of court.

✔ Focused on Family First

If children are involved, we understand how critical it is to protect their well-being while preserving your rights as a parent. Our team is highly experienced in handling allocation of parental responsibilities, parenting plans, and child support matters. We work diligently to create solutions that serve your child’s best interests while minimizing conflict and helping ensure long-term stability.

✔ Transparent Communication and Accessibility

We pride ourselves on being responsive and communicative. You’ll never be left in the dark about your case. We keep you updated every step of the way, explain legal jargon in plain English, and are always available to answer your questions.

You can count on us for honesty, reliability, and timely support because when your family’s future is at stake, nothing matters more.

✔ Award-Winning Representation

Masters Law Group is recognized as a top-tier law firm in Illinois family law. Our attorneys have been consistently honored by Super Lawyers, Best Lawyers, and the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, among others.

Our results speak for themselves, but so do our client testimonials. We’re proud to serve as a trusted legal partner for families across Chicago and the surrounding suburbs.


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Ready to Take the First Step?

We understand the uncertainty that comes with divorce, but you don’t have to face it alone. Whether you’re seeking information, guidance, or immediate representation, Masters Law Group is here to help you take back control of your future.

👉 Schedule a confidential consultation today to learn how we can help you navigate this process with confidence and compassion.

Social Media and Divorce: What You Post Can (and Will) Be Used Against You

In today’s digital age, social media is a deeply embedded part of our lives. From sharing milestones and daily moments to connecting with friends and family, platforms like Facebook, Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), and TikTok have revolutionized the way we communicate. But while social media has its perks, it can also complicate personal matters, especially divorce.

At Masters Law Group, we’ve seen firsthand how posts, likes, comments, and even private messages can play a crucial role in divorce proceedings. If you’re going through a divorce or anticipating one, understanding how your social media activity could impact your case is critical.

Let’s explore how social media affects divorce cases, what kind of content can be used as evidence, and how to navigate your online presence wisely during this emotionally charged time.

Social Media’s Expanding Role in Divorce

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The Digital Paper Trail

One of the key differences between divorces today and those from just a decade ago is the availability of digital evidence. Social media provides a real-time digital paper trail that can be subpoenaed and introduced in court.

Photos, captions, check-ins, friend lists, direct messages, and comments can all be retrieved and used to build a narrative about your behavior, lifestyle, and credibility. Even deleted content may not be fully gone. Once something is on the internet, it can often be recovered.

According to the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML), 78% of divorce attorneys reported an increase in the use of social media evidence in their cases. 

How Social Media Can Impact Your Divorce

1. Allocation of Parental Responsibility 

Your social media behavior can directly affect your parenting plan. Courts aim to make decisions based on the best interests of the child. If your posts suggest irresponsible parenting, such as photos of excessive partying, substance abuse, or disparaging comments about your ex, it could significantly harm your case.

Even a seemingly innocent post of a night out without your child could be interpreted as neglectful, depending on the context. Judges take a holistic view, and social media can tip the scales.

2. Alimony and Asset Division

If you’re claiming financial hardship while simultaneously showcasing a luxury lifestyle on social media, don’t be surprised when your posts are used against you.

Posts featuring expensive vacations, new cars, high-end purchases, or lavish dinners can contradict claims of limited income or inability to pay spousal or child support. Conversely, if you’re hiding assets or underreporting income, social media can reveal the truth.

3. Infidelity and Misconduct

Even if Illinois is a no-fault divorce state, evidence of cheating or marital misconduct can still influence certain aspects of a case, particularly parenting plans or property division.

Tagging, location check-ins, or cozy photos with a new partner during separation can be used to paint a narrative of infidelity or poor judgment. Direct messages or flirty comments might also be admissible evidence.

4. Violation of Court Orders

Once legal proceedings are underway, temporary orders regarding communication, child visitation, or financial support may be in place. Violating these orders, intentionally or not, via social media can result in contempt of court.

For example, badmouthing your ex online after being ordered not to, or discussing confidential aspects of your divorce, can have serious legal consequences.

Real-Life Examples of Social Media Missteps

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To illustrate just how impactful social media can be, here are a few real-world scenarios:

  • The Instagram Overshare: A woman claimed she couldn’t afford spousal support, but her Instagram account showed a recent trip to the Maldives, designer handbags, and daily upscale dining. Her feed became a key exhibit in her ex-spouse’s motion to modify support.
  • The Facebook Faux Pas: A father in a parenting plan dispute posted a video of himself drinking with friends while his young child was present in the background. The video was submitted to the judge and influenced the arrangement.
  • The TikTok Rant: A man posted a series of rants about his ex and the court system. His videos included threats and disparaging remarks. The court considered the content abusive and ruled it as damaging behavior in both parenting time and property division rulings.

Tips for Managing Social Media During Divorce

To help protect yourself and your case, consider following these practical guidelines:

1. Pause or Limit Your Social Media Activity

If possible, consider deactivating your accounts temporarily. If that feels too drastic, at least switch your profiles to private, avoid posting about your personal life, and drastically limit your interactions.

2. Avoid Posting About Your Divorce

Never air your grievances online. Even vague posts can be misinterpreted. Refrain from posting anything related to your ex, your legal case, or your emotional state.

3. Think Before You Post (or Comment, or Like)

Ask yourself: “Would I be okay with a judge seeing this?” If the answer is no, or even maybe, don’t post it. That includes memes, comments on others’ pages, or reacting to your ex’s content.

4. Don’t Spy on Your Ex

While it might be tempting to monitor your ex’s activity or snoop through mutual friends’ posts, this can lead to poor decisions. Never attempt to hack into their accounts or create fake profiles to gather information. It’s not only unethical, it could be illegal.

5. Instruct Friends and Family to Avoid Posting About You

Even if you’re careful, your friends’ posts can drag you into unwanted territory. Politely ask them not to tag you, post pictures of you, or mention your divorce online.

Can Social Media Be Used in Court?

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Yes. Courts are increasingly accepting social media content as admissible evidence.

However, it must be:

  • Relevant to the case
  • Authenticated (i.e., shown to be a real post from the person in question)
  • Not obtained illegally (e.g., through hacking or misrepresentation)

Attorneys may issue subpoenas for social media data, especially if there’s reason to believe someone is hiding assets, violating the parenting plan, or misrepresenting their situation.

Social Media Do’s and Don’ts During Divorce

✅ Do:

  • Set your accounts to private
  • Be mindful of photos, comments, and tags
  • Assume everything online can become public
  • Speak to your attorney before posting about legal matters

❌ Don’t:

  • Vent about your divorce or ex online
  • Share new relationships before your divorce is finalized
  • Flaunt new purchases or luxury experiences
  • Delete posts without consulting your lawyer (this could be viewed as destroying evidence)

How Masters Law Group Can Help

At Masters Law Group, we understand how stressful and emotionally overwhelming divorce can be, especially when digital evidence is involved.

Our legal team is experienced in handling high-conflict divorces, complex asset divisions, and contested parenting plan cases where social media plays a pivotal role. We help you anticipate potential issues, protect your digital reputation, and build a strategic legal approach tailored to your situation.

Whether you’re concerned about what your ex is posting or unsure about your own online activity, we provide the guidance you need to move forward with confidence.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is difficult enough without social media adding fuel to the fire. While it may feel like an outlet for venting or a way to maintain normalcy, what you share online can have long-lasting implications in your case.

If you’re going through or considering divorce, now is the time to audit your online presence, stay cautious, and seek experienced legal counsel. Don’t let a single post undermine your future.

Contact Masters Law Group

If you’re facing a divorce in Illinois and want a team of skilled, compassionate, and strategic attorneys on your side, Masters Law Group is here to help.

📞 Call us today at (312) 609-1700
📍 Based in Chicago, serving clients throughout Cook County and DuPage County
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Protect your future, online and offline, with Masters Law Group.


FAQs: Social Media and Divorce

1. Can social media posts really be used as evidence in my divorce case?

Yes. Courts regularly accept social media content as admissible evidence if it’s relevant, properly authenticated, and not obtained illegally. Posts, photos, comments, and even direct messages can be used to support or refute claims related to finances, custody, behavior, or credibility.

2. Should I delete my old posts once my divorce begins?

Not without legal advice. Deleting posts may be seen as destroying evidence, especially if litigation is pending. Always consult with your attorney before removing or modifying social media content. A better approach is to limit your activity and adjust your privacy settings.

3. Can I block or unfriend my ex during the divorce?

Yes, but do so carefully. Blocking your ex may reduce emotional stress and limit potential conflict, but it won’t prevent attorneys from accessing public or shared content. Be mindful of mutual friends who may still see and possibly share your posts.

4. What if my ex is posting lies or attacking me online?

Don’t retaliate. Document the posts with screenshots, and share them with your attorney. You may be able to request a court order to stop the behavior, especially if it’s harassing, threatening, or violates temporary court orders.

5. How should I use social media during my divorce?

Use it sparingly and cautiously. Avoid posting anything about your case, your ex, your finances, parenting, or new relationships. When in doubt, don’t post. Your best move is to focus on your real-life support system and leave the legal matters to your attorney.

July is National Make a Difference to Children Month: Protect Your Children’s Well-Being During Legal Disputes

Each July, National Make a Difference to Children Month reminds us of the vital role we all play in shaping the futures of our youngest and most vulnerable population, our children. At Masters Law Group, this observance takes on profound meaning, especially when guiding families through the complex legal challenges of divorce, allocation of parental responsibility, parenting time, and other family law matters.

When families face legal disputes, the emotional toll on children can be immense. Parents must navigate these transitions not only with legal precision but with a deep commitment to protecting their children’s emotional and psychological well-being.

In this blog, we’ll explore what National Make a Difference to Children Month represents, the impact of legal disputes on children, and how families can mitigate these effects with the right legal support and intentional parenting. We’ll also share insights into how the experienced family law attorneys at Masters Law Group can help families protect what matters most.

What Is National Make a Difference to Children Month

Founded by author and child advocate Kim Ratz, National Make a Difference to Children Month encourages adults, whether parents, teachers, neighbors, or community leaders, to take active steps in improving children’s lives. The goal is to help ensure every child feels seen, supported, safe, and valued.

This month-long observance focuses on:

  • Promoting healthy, supportive environments for children
  • Raising awareness about issues affecting children’s well-being
  • Encouraging adults to advocate for children’s needs
  • Reminding parents of their critical role in shaping children’s long-term emotional health

For families navigating legal disputes, especially divorce, allocation of parental responsibilities, or post-judgment modifications, this awareness month is an urgent reminder to place children’s best interests at the center of every decision.

The Emotional Impact of Legal Disputes on Children

Divorce and parenting time disputes don’t just impact the separating couple; they affect the entire family system, especially children. The psychological effects can be long-lasting if not properly addressed.

Some of the most common emotional consequences children face include:

  1. Stress and Anxiety: Children often internalize the tension between parents. Even when efforts are made to shield them from conflict, children can sense emotional distress and instability. This can lead to anxiety, behavioral changes, or sleep problems.
  2. Feelings of Guilt or Responsibility: Many children mistakenly believe they are the cause of their parents’ separation or ongoing conflict. These feelings can fuel low self-esteem and depression if left unaddressed.
  3. Loyalty Conflicts: Being caught between two parents can force children to “choose sides,” which is emotionally damaging. The fear of disappointing one parent often leads to internal conflict and emotional strain.
  4. Disruption of Routine and Stability: Sudden changes in living arrangements, school environments, or financial resources can disrupt a child’s sense of security. The absence of a predictable routine often contributes to behavioral issues and academic decline.
  5. Long-Term Relationship Patterns: Studies show that children exposed to high-conflict divorces may develop trust issues and struggle in their future relationships. Their model for conflict resolution and communication is shaped by what they witness between their parents.

How to Make a Difference for Your Child During Legal Disputes

While legal disputes can be overwhelming, there are proactive steps you can take to help ensure your child’s well-being remains a top priority.

  1. Prioritize Open, Age-Appropriate Communication: Keep your child informed, within reason, about what is happening in a way they can understand. Avoid using them as messengers or involving them in adult discussions. Instead, encourage them to express their feelings and reassure them that their needs are important and will be met.
  2. Maintain Stability Wherever Possible: Children thrive on consistency. Do your best to keep routines in place, whether it’s school attendance, extracurricular activities, or bedtime rituals. A consistent environment helps reduce anxiety and fosters a sense of safety. 
  3. Use a Child-Focused Co-Parenting Approach: Co-parenting effectively after separation or divorce requires both parents to commit to respectful communication and unified decision-making around the child’s needs. Utilize tools like parenting plans and co-parenting apps to stay organized and reduce conflict.
  4. Avoid Negative Talk About the Other Parent: Children should never feel like they must defend one parent from another. Negative talk not only confuses and hurts them but may also be viewed unfavorably in court during allocation of parental responsibility evaluations. Always speak positively or neutrally about the other parent in front of your child.
  5. Work with Child or Family Therapists: Engaging a licensed child therapist can provide your child with a neutral space to work through their emotions. In high-conflict cases, a parenting plan evaluator or guardian ad litem may be appointed to advocate for the child’s best interests.
  6. Hire a Family Law Attorney Who Understands Children’s Needs: A skilled family law attorney with experience in child-focused legal solutions can make all the difference. At Masters Law Group, we focus on child-centered legal solutions that protect children’s emotional and developmental well-being. Erin E. Masters holds a Juris Doctorate and Certificate in Child and Family Law from Loyola University Chicago, with a strong emphasis on child-focused representation. Anthony G. Joseph brings extensive experience in family law, including international child abduction cases under the Hague Convention. Together, our team is dedicated to guiding families through complex legal matters with compassion and care.

Legal Services That Prioritize Children’s Best Interests

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At Masters Law Group, our attorneys have extensive experience handling family law cases where the welfare of children is at the forefront. Here are just a few ways we support families:

  1. Parenting Time (Visitation): We help clients negotiate parenting arrangements that support stability, emotional health, and developmental needs. Our goal is to craft parenting plans that work for both parties while placing the child’s well-being at the center.
  2. Allocation of Parental Responsibilities: Illinois law has shifted away from traditional terms like “custody” and instead focuses on the allocation of parental responsibilities. We guide parents through this process to help ensure a fair, child-focused outcome.
  3. Mediation and Collaborative Divorce: Whenever possible, we promote non-adversarial solutions such as mediation and collaborative divorce. These approaches can help reduce conflict, preserve parental relationships, and protect children from the emotional fallout of litigation.
  4. International Child Custody and Abduction Cases: As leaders in international family law, we assist with Hague Convention cases, helping families recover children who have been wrongfully removed or retained across borders. We act swiftly and effectively to protect children’s rights and help ensure safe, lawful outcomes.
  5. Post-Decree Modifications: Circumstances can change over time, and existing parenting plans or allocation of parental responsibilities may no longer be suitable. We assist parents in modifying legal arrangements to reflect the best interests of the child as they grow and evolve.

Why Choose Masters Law Group?

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Protecting your child during legal disputes requires more than good intentions; it requires informed action and experienced legal guidance. Here’s why families throughout Illinois trust Masters Law Group:

  • Client-Centered Approach: We tailor every case to the unique needs of the client and their family, offering flexible solutions that prioritize children’s emotional health.
  • Award-Winning Legal Team: Our attorneys have been recognized for their excellence in family law, including rankings in Best Law Firms by U.S. News & World Report.
  • Strong Litigation and Mediation Experience: Whether your case can be resolved amicably or requires court intervention, our firm has the tools and knowledge to secure a favorable outcome.
  • Child-Focused Philosophy: We are committed to making a positive difference in children’s lives, whether through our advocacy in the courtroom or our guidance behind the scenes.

Making a Difference Starts Today

This July, in honor of National Make a Difference to Children Month, we invite parents and guardians to take meaningful steps to help protect and uplift their children during family transitions. Divorce or separation is never easy, but with the right support, it can be handled in a way that fosters resilience, growth, and peace of mind for everyone involved.

At Masters Law Group, we are here to help you navigate these challenges with compassion, clarity, and an unwavering focus on your child’s well-being. Our attorneys have served as court-appointed Child Representatives and Guardians Ad Litem in the Domestic Relations Division of the Circuit Court of Cook County, advocating for children’s best interests in some of the most sensitive family law cases.

Schedule a confidential consultation with us today to learn how we can help you protect what matters most, your family.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

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1. How can I protect my child emotionally during a divorce or custody dispute?

Focus on maintaining open, age-appropriate communication with your child. Reassure them that they are loved and that the divorce is not their fault. Avoid exposing them to conflict and consider involving a child therapist or counselor to help them process emotions in a healthy way.

2. What does “the best interests of the child” mean in Illinois family law?

In Illinois, the court considers several factors to determine what arrangement best serves a child’s well-being, including the child’s needs, each parent’s ability to provide care, the level of conflict between parents, and the child’s wishes (depending on age and maturity). These considerations guide the allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time decisions.

3. Can my child decide which parent they want to live with?

While Illinois courts may consider the preferences of a mature child, that preference is just one of many factors. The final decision rests with the court, which will evaluate what arrangement supports the child’s emotional, physical, and developmental needs.

4. What is a parenting plan, and why is it important?

A parenting plan is a legal document that outlines each parent’s responsibilities, parenting time schedule, decision-making authority, and methods for resolving disputes. A well-crafted parenting plan provides stability and reduces conflict, making it a crucial tool for helping protect your child’s well-being.

5. How can Masters Law Group help my family during a legal dispute involving children?

Masters Law Group provides compassionate, child-focused legal representation. Whether through mediation, collaborative law, or litigation, our team works to help minimize emotional stress and secure arrangements that support your child’s long-term best interests. We tailor our approach to fit the unique needs of your family.

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

July marks National Child-Centered Divorce Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about the impact of divorce on children and promoting resources that help families navigate separation in healthier, more supportive ways. 

For families going through divorce, this month serves as a reminder that even in the most difficult transitions, children’s emotional well-being and long-term stability must come first.

At Masters Law Group, we believe that when a marriage ends, it’s not just the couple who feels the emotional and logistical upheaval; it’s the children who often bear the deepest, most lasting effects. That’s why we approach every case with care, clarity, and a commitment to child-centered outcomes. 

In recognition of National Child-Centered Divorce Month, we’re diving into what a child-centered divorce truly means, why it matters, and how families can move forward with strength, compassion, and the right legal support.

What Is National Child-Centered Divorce Month?

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

National Child-Centered Divorce Month is an annual initiative that brings attention to the unique needs of children during and after divorce. Each July, professionals across the legal, psychological, and parenting fields offer free resources, expert advice, and educational content to help parents prioritize their children’s emotional and developmental needs throughout the divorce process.

The core message is simple but powerful: children should never be caught in the crossfire of divorce. Instead, they should be protected, supported, and given the opportunity to thrive, even when family dynamics shift.

Why a Child-Centered Divorce Matters

Divorce is often a traumatic event for children, particularly if the process is riddled with conflict, poor communication, or unstable living arrangements. A child-centered divorce acknowledges that children are not just passive observers; they are deeply affected participants whose futures are shaped by the actions and decisions of the adults around them.

Here are just a few reasons why putting children first during divorce is so important:

  1. Emotional Stability: Divorce often causes anxiety, sadness, and confusion in children, particularly if they don’t understand what’s happening or feel caught between parents. A child-centered approach helps ensure that children’s emotional needs are prioritized, and steps are taken to provide reassurance and a sense of safety.
  2. Long-Term Mental Health: Research shows that high-conflict divorces can contribute to behavioral problems, depression, and anxiety in children that may persist into adulthood. Minimizing conflict and modeling respectful co-parenting can help lead to healthier long-term outcomes.
  3. Secure Parent-Child Relationships: When parents commit to working together, children are more likely to maintain close relationships with both parents, which supports their emotional development and sense of identity.
  4. Academic and Social Success: Children who experience less turmoil during divorce tend to perform better academically and socially, largely because they are not burdened with stress, confusion, or emotional instability at home.

Key Principles of a Child-Centered Divorce

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

At Masters Law Group, we incorporate the principles of a child-centered divorce into every case we handle. Whether you’re facing a contested divorce, an uncontested divorce, or a civil union dissolution, here are some guiding principles we advocate:

  1. Minimize Conflict: Children do not need to witness arguments or feel pressure to choose sides. Whenever possible, we aim for amicable resolutions, mediation, and communication strategies that lower emotional tension.
  2. Use Age-Appropriate Communication: Telling children about a divorce should be done in a way that matches their developmental level. They need honesty, but also reassurance that they are loved and not to blame for the situation.
  3. Maintain Consistency and Stability: Children thrive on routine. We work with families to create parenting plans that promote consistency in schedules, schooling, and living arrangements.
  4. Encourage Co-Parenting, Not Co-Battling: We guide parents toward cooperative co-parenting solutions where both parties are actively involved and decisions are made in the child’s best interest.
  5. Focus on the Child’s Perspective: Every divorce decision, from allocation of parental responsibilities to holidays to schooling, should be examined through the lens of how it will affect the child, both in the short term and the long run.

Legal Tools for Child-Centered Divorce

Having a legal team that understands and supports a child-centered approach is critical. At Masters Law Group, we use a variety of legal tools and strategies to help ensure the divorce process prioritizes children at every step.

  1. Parenting Plans: One of the most vital documents in a child-centered divorce, a parenting plan outlines how each parent will share time and responsibilities. It addresses holidays, decision-making authority, extracurricular activities, and communication guidelines. We help craft detailed, customized plans that reduce conflict and support your child’s needs.
  2. Mediation Services: Mediation allows couples to resolve differences outside of court, with the help of a neutral third party. This process is generally less adversarial, faster, and more cost-effective than litigation, and it keeps the focus on collaborative solutions.
  3. Allocation of Parental Responsibilities: Illinois has moved away from the traditional “custody” terminology in favor of “allocation of parental responsibilities.” This modern approach reflects a more nuanced understanding of parenting roles. We help you navigate the complex factors involved in these decisions, always advocating for the best interests of your child.
  4. Child Support: Ensuring that children have the financial resources they need to thrive is a critical part of the divorce process. Our team helps establish fair and legally sound child support arrangements based on Illinois state guidelines.

Practical Tips for Parents During Divorce

Beyond the courtroom, there are everyday actions parents can take to ease the transition for their children. Here are some practical tips that align with the child-centered divorce approach:

  1. Keep Adult Conversations Private: Don’t argue or discuss legal matters in front of your children. Shield them from conflict and legal complexities they don’t need to hear.
  2. Validate Their Emotions: Children may feel angry, confused, or afraid. Let them know these feelings are normal and that it’s okay to express them in healthy ways.
  3. Avoid Speaking Negatively About the Other Parent: Even if tensions are high, avoid criticizing your ex in front of your child. Doing so can create confusion and emotional distress.
  4. Stay Involved: Children do best when they maintain strong relationships with both parents. Stay engaged in their education, extracurriculars, and day-to-day life, even if you don’t have primary parenting time.
  5. Seek Professional Support: Sometimes, kids need additional help coping with divorce. Child therapists and family counselors can offer invaluable guidance and emotional support.

How Masters Law Group Supports Families

National Child-Centered Divorce Month

As a family law firm based in Chicagoland (with offices downtown and Oak Brook, DuPage County), Masters Law Group has built a reputation for compassionate, effective representation in all types of divorce and family law matters. Our attorneys, Erin E. Masters and Anthony G. Joseph, are highly experienced in navigating complex divorce cases, particularly those involving children.

We take a personalized, client-focused approach because no two families are alike. Our goal is to resolve your divorce with minimal disruption and maximum care for your children’s well-being. Whether you’re just starting the process or need help modifying an existing parenting plan, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to leave lasting emotional scars on children. By committing to a child-centered approach and working with a compassionate legal team, parents can help ensure that their children emerge from the experience feeling safe, loved, and supported.

As we observe National Child-Centered Divorce Month, let’s collectively raise awareness and advocate for divorce practices that truly protect our most vulnerable family members, our children.

If you or someone you know is going through a divorce and needs legal guidance, Masters Law Group is here to help. Our team is ready to support you with thoughtful strategies that keep your child’s best interests at the heart of every decision.


About Masters Law Group

Located in downtown Chicago, Masters Law Group is proud to offer skilled and personalized representation in divorce and family law matters. Our practice includes divorce, mediation, parental allocation, and international family law. We are committed to helping clients find clarity and resolution during life’s most challenging transitions, especially when children are involved.

Contact us today to schedule a complimentary consultation.


FAQs: National Child-Centered Divorce and Protecting Your Child’s Well-Being

  1. What does it mean to have a “child-centered divorce”?
    A child-centered divorce focuses on minimizing the emotional and psychological impact of divorce on children. It prioritizes their stability, security, and well-being in all decisions, especially regarding parenting time, communication, and conflict resolution. The goal is to foster a peaceful transition that supports your child’s long-term development and happiness.
  2. How can I protect my child from the emotional effects of divorce?
    Some key ways include: avoiding conflict in front of them, maintaining consistent routines, being honest in an age-appropriate way, and helping ensure they feel safe and loved by both parents. Additionally, working with a family law attorney who understands child-centered practices, like the team at Masters Law Group, can help ensure your legal proceedings support your child’s best interests.
  3. What is a parenting plan, and why is it important?
    A parenting plan is a formal agreement that outlines how parents will share responsibilities after a divorce. It includes details on parenting time (formerly known as custody), decision-making authority, communication, holidays, and more. A well-structured parenting plan provides consistency and helps avoid future conflict, giving your child a more stable environment.
  4. Can my child decide which parent to live with?
    In Illinois, children do not have the legal authority to decide where they live, but their preferences may be considered by the court, especially if the child is mature enough to express a reasoned opinion. Ultimately, the court’s decisions are guided by what is in the child’s best interests.
  5. What should I do if my co-parent isn’t cooperating or is creating conflict?
    Ongoing conflict can be harmful to children. If your co-parent isn’t cooperating with the parenting plan or is behaving in a way that negatively affects your child, it’s important to document the issues and consult your attorney. Masters Law Group can help enforce court orders or seek modifications to protect your child’s well-being.

Red Flags of Hidden Assets in Divorce

Divorce can be emotionally challenging and financially complex, especially when one spouse is hiding assets. Whether it’s a matter of distrust, financial control, or an attempt to manipulate the outcome of the divorce settlement, hiding assets is more common than you might think. 

At Masters Law Group, we believe in transparency and fairness throughout the divorce process, and we are here to help you identify red flags that may indicate your spouse is concealing assets.

Understanding Hidden Assets in Divorce

Hidden Assets in Divorce

Hidden assets refer to any financial resource that one spouse attempts to keep from the other during divorce proceedings. These assets can include:

Failing to disclose assets in a divorce is not only unethical—it’s illegal. Illinois law requires full financial disclosure from both parties during divorce proceedings, as asset division is based on equitable distribution.

Why Do People Hide Assets?

People hide assets for several reasons, including:

  • Fear of losing wealth: One spouse may want to keep more than their fair share.
  • Revenge: Emotions can drive irrational behavior, including financial deceit.
  • Distrust: A history of mistrust can motivate one party to secretly stash funds.
  • Financial control: Hiding assets can be a form of power and manipulation.

Unfortunately, even in amicable divorces, it’s not uncommon for one spouse to misrepresent their financial situation. Being informed and vigilant is crucial to helping protect your future.

Red Flags That May Indicate Hidden Assets

Hidden Assets in Divorce

Below are some of the most common red flags that may signal your spouse is hiding money or property during your divorce:

1. Sudden Financial Secrecy

If your spouse becomes unusually secretive about finances—changing passwords, redirecting mail, or limiting your access to shared accounts—it could be a sign they’re trying to conceal information. Transparency in shared finances should be a norm, and a sudden change is worth noting.

2. Overpaying Credit Cards or Taxes

Overpaying credit card bills or intentionally sending the IRS more than what’s owed can be a sneaky way to stash funds. These overpayments can later be refunded after the divorce, effectively allowing one spouse to retrieve hidden money.

3. Undervaluing or “Forgetting” Assets

A spouse may “forget” to list certain assets or significantly undervalue them during financial disclosure. Common examples include:

Always be cautious if your spouse claims certain items “aren’t worth much” without a professional appraisal.

4. Unusual Business Activity

If your spouse owns a business, they may manipulate income, delay contracts, or falsely inflate expenses to make the business appear less profitable. Common tactics include:

  • Paying nonexistent employees
  • Delaying new projects or commissions
  • Writing off personal expenses as business costs

Business owners have more flexibility to disguise income, making a forensic accountant essential in these situations.

5. Lifestyle Discrepancies

Does your spouse claim to be broke while still driving luxury cars or taking lavish vacations? A mismatch between declared income and lifestyle is a glaring red flag. Their actual financial reality may be hidden behind unreported income or off-the-books earnings.

6. Gifting or Transferring Money to Family and Friends

Some individuals temporarily “loan” or “gift” money to family and friends to reduce their net worth on paper. These funds are often returned after the divorce is finalized. Watch for unusual or large transfers to third parties.

7. Sudden Debts or Liabilities

If your spouse suddenly reports large debts that never existed before, it may be an attempt to reduce their net worth. Some people fabricate loans or claim to owe money to acquaintances, which is really a strategy to disguise assets.

8. Changes in Pay or Bonuses

Delaying a raise, bonus, or commission until after the divorce is finalized is another tactic. If your spouse’s employer seems to be “holding” money, it’s worth investigating whether this is being done strategically.

9. Cryptocurrency or Offshore Accounts

With the rise of digital currencies, it’s becoming easier to hide money online. Assets held in cryptocurrency wallets or offshore accounts are difficult to trace without professional assistance, but they leave digital footprints.

10. Missing Financial Records

If bank statements, tax returns, or investment account summaries suddenly go missing—or if your spouse refuses to provide them—it’s often a sign of intentional concealment. Transparency is legally required, and withholding documents can indicate deeper issues.

How to Protect Yourself

Hidden Assets in Divorce

If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets, don’t ignore the signs. Take proactive steps to help protect your financial future:

1. Work with a Divorce Attorney Experienced in High-Asset and Complex Cases

At Masters Law Group, our attorneys are experienced in uncovering hidden assets and working with financial professionals to help ensure full disclosure. We can help you file subpoenas, request documents, and take legal action if necessary.

2. Hire a Forensic Accountant

A forensic accountant specializes in tracing funds, analyzing tax returns, and reviewing business records to uncover inconsistencies. They’re particularly helpful in cases involving:

  • Business ownership
  • Offshore accounts
  • Cryptocurrency
  • Stock portfolios

3. Gather Your Own Financial Records

Before and during your divorce, collect as much documentation as possible, including:

  • Bank and credit card statements
  • Tax returns (at least 3–5 years)
  • Investment account summaries
  • Business financials
  • Pay stubs and employment records

The more evidence you can provide, the easier it will be to spot discrepancies.

4. Request Court Intervention if Necessary

If your spouse continues to conceal financial information or refuses to cooperate, the court may impose legal penalties. These can include:

  • Fines
  • Imputation of income
  • Awarding a greater share of marital assets to the honest spouse

Your attorney can file a motion to compel disclosure or take depositions to uncover the truth.

Legal Consequences of Hiding Assets

In Illinois, hiding assets during a divorce can have serious consequences. The courts do not look kindly on dishonest financial behavior. Penalties may include:

  • Contempt of court for failing to disclose assets
  • Sanctions or legal fees paid to the opposing party
  • Unequal distribution of marital property
  • Criminal charges in extreme cases of fraud

The Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (IMDMA) requires full disclosure and equitable division of marital property. Attempting to manipulate the process undermines legal fairness and can backfire significantly.

The Role of Masters Law Group

At Masters Law Group, we understand that divorce is not just about dividing assets—it’s about securing your future. If you suspect your spouse is hiding assets, we’re here to help:

  • We analyze financial documents and help uncover inconsistencies.
  • We collaborate with forensic accountants and investigators.
  • We file court motions and subpoenas to compel disclosure.
  • We fight for equitable distribution on your behalf.

Whether your divorce involves complex financial portfolios, family businesses, or potential hidden assets, our experienced attorneys have the resources and knowledge to protect what’s rightfully yours.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is already stressful enough—don’t let financial dishonesty add to the burden. If something feels off, trust your instincts. Hidden assets can drastically affect your settlement and your future stability.

Recognizing red flags early and working with an experienced legal team is the key to ensuring a fair outcome. At Masters Law Group, we are committed to providing strategic guidance, compassionate counsel, and aggressive representation when necessary.

Don’t face this challenge alone. If you’re going through a divorce and suspect hidden assets may be involved, contact us today for a confidential consultation.

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Frequently Asked Questions FAQs

Hidden Assets in Divorce

1. What qualifies as a hidden asset in a divorce?

A hidden asset is any property, income, or financial resource that one spouse intentionally conceals or fails to disclose during the divorce process. This can include undisclosed bank accounts, real estate, investment portfolios, cryptocurrency, cash, business income, or valuable personal property such as art or jewelry.

2. How can I tell if my spouse is hiding assets during our divorce?

Some common red flags include unusual financial secrecy, sudden debts, missing financial records, overpayments on credit cards or taxes, and lifestyle discrepancies. If your spouse owns a business or suddenly changes their financial behavior, these may also be signs of concealment.

3. What should I do if I suspect hidden assets in my divorce?

If you suspect hidden assets, consult a divorce attorney experienced in high-asset or complex cases, like the team at Masters Law Group. They may recommend hiring a forensic accountant, filing subpoenas for financial records, and taking legal steps to compel full disclosure.

4. What are the consequences of hiding assets in a divorce?

Hiding assets is illegal and can result in serious consequences, including court sanctions, fines, loss of credibility, and an unequal division of marital property. In some cases, the court may award the honest spouse a larger share of the assets or refer the matter for criminal investigation.

5. Can cryptocurrency or digital assets be hidden during a divorce?

Yes, cryptocurrency and digital assets are increasingly used to conceal wealth due to their decentralized nature. However, with the help of forensic experts and legal tools, these assets can often be traced. At Masters Law Group, we work with professionals to help ensure no digital asset goes undiscovered.

Divorce for Business Owners: How to Protect Your Company

Divorce can be complicated enough, but when one or both spouses own a business, the stakes are even higher. Whether you built your business from the ground up or inherited a family enterprise, protecting what you’ve worked so hard for is crucial. Divorce proceedings can put your company’s assets, operations, and future at risk if not handled properly.

At Masters Law Group, we understand the unique challenges that business owners face during a divorce. With years of experience in high-net-worth and complex divorce cases, including those involving business valuations and ownership rights, our team of attorneys is here to help protect your personal and professional interests.

In this guide, we’ll walk you through everything business owners need to know about divorce and how to help safeguard their company in the process.

Understanding Marital vs. Non-Marital Property

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The first question many business owners ask during divorce is: Will I lose my business?

The answer depends largely on how the court classifies your business as marital property or non-marital property.

Marital Property

In Illinois, anything acquired during the marriage is generally considered marital property, regardless of whose name is on the asset. That includes a business started during the marriage or if marital assets were used to grow the business.

Even if the business is solely in one spouse’s name, it may still be considered marital property if it was founded or significantly enhanced during the marriage.

Non-Marital Property

Non-marital property includes:

If you started your business before you were married and did not mix marital and business finances, it may be considered non-marital. However, any increase in its value during the marriage may still be subject to division.

The Importance of a Business Valuation

If your business is determined to be marital property or partially marital, it must be valued for equitable division.

How Valuation Works

Valuation methods can vary, but generally fall into one of three categories:

  1. Asset-Based Valuation – Assesses the value of the company’s assets minus its liabilities.
  2. Market-Based Valuation – Compares your business to similar businesses that have recently sold.
  3. Income-Based Valuation – Projects future income and determines the present value of those earnings.

It’s critical to work with a forensic accountant or business valuation expert who is experienced in divorce proceedings. The valuation not only affects how much the business is worth—it can also determine how it is divided.

Division Options: What Happens to the Business?

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Once the business has been valued, the court will consider how to equitably divide the value. Here are the most common options:

1. Buyout

One spouse buys the other out of their share of the business, retaining full ownership. This is often the most practical option, especially if both parties want to avoid interfering with the company’s operations.

2. Co-Ownership

Both spouses continue to co-own the business post-divorce. This requires a strong working relationship and a high level of trust—something not always feasible in a divorce.

3. Sell the Business

The business is sold, and the proceeds are divided. While straightforward, this option may not be ideal if the business is profitable and central to your livelihood.

Protective Strategies for Business Owners

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To prevent your business from becoming a casualty of divorce, consider these proactive legal strategies:

1. Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements

One of the best ways to protect your business is through a legally binding prenuptial or postnuptial agreement that defines your business as separate property. This can outline:

  • Ownership percentages
  • What happens to the business in the event of divorce
  • Whether appreciation in value is considered marital

2. Keeping Business and Marital Finances Separate

Avoid commingling business and personal finances. Use separate bank accounts, keep detailed records, and refrain from using marital assets to support the business.

3. Limiting Spouse Involvement

If your spouse worked in the business or contributed to its success, their involvement could entitle them to a larger share during divorce. Consider limiting their role in the business or outlining their contributions in a formal agreement.

4. Shareholder, Partnership, or Operating Agreements

If you co-own the business with others, your agreements should include divorce clauses—known as “buy-sell” or “involuntary transfer” provisions—that prevent a spouse from acquiring a stake in the business.

Navigating Divorce Without Disrupting Operations

Beyond asset division, divorce can impact the day-to-day operations of your business. Here’s how to help protect your company’s continuity:

1. Maintain Confidentiality

Business finances disclosed during divorce can become part of the public record. Work with your attorney to request confidentiality agreements or seal sensitive documents.

2. Manage Employee and Client Concerns

News of a divorce—especially one involving business ownership disputes—can lead to uncertainty among staff and clients. It’s important to control the narrative and assure stakeholders that the business will continue as usual.

3. Plan for Liquidity

If a buyout or settlement requires a large cash payment, ensure your business has sufficient liquidity or access to financing. Consider working with a financial advisor to explore creative solutions.

Tax Implications for Business Owners

Dividing a business during divorce can have complex tax consequences:

  • Capital gains taxes may apply if the business or its assets are sold.
  • Transfers of ownership may trigger tax liabilities if not structured properly.
  • Alimony payments can also impact taxable income.

Work closely with a tax advisor or CPA who has experience with business-related divorce issues to avoid costly mistakes.

What If My Spouse Wants Half of My Business?

It’s a common fear—and while Illinois is an equitable distribution state (not equal distribution), this does not automatically mean your spouse gets half.

The court will look at various factors, including:

  • Each spouse’s contribution to the acquisition or maintenance of the business
  • The length of the marriage
  • The economic circumstances of each spouse
  • Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements
  • Whether the business is a marital or non-marital asset

Often, the court will award the business to one spouse (usually the owner-operator) while compensating the other with a larger share of other marital assets (like retirement accounts, real estate, or cash).

What About Hidden Assets?

Business owners may be tempted to hide assets or understate revenue during a divorce. This is a mistake. Courts take hidden assets seriously, and being caught can damage your credibility and result in legal penalties.

If you suspect your spouse may be concealing business income, work with a forensic accountant. At Masters Law Group, we have experience uncovering and litigating these types of complex financial issues.

When Divorce Turns International

In today’s global economy, many businesses have international components—foreign partners, global clients, overseas assets, or even foreign marriage jurisdictions.

Divorces involving international elements can invoke The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, tax treaties, and other cross-border legal considerations. 

Our team at Masters Law Group is experienced in handling international divorce matters and the unique challenges they bring, helping ensure your business and family remain protected across borders.

How Masters Law Group Can Help

Divorce for Business Owners

Navigating divorce as a business owner requires a legal team with deep knowledge of business law, asset protection, and high-net-worth divorce litigation. At Masters Law Group, we bring all of that—and more—to the table.

We provide:

We know your business is more than just an asset—it’s your passion, your livelihood, and your legacy. We’re here to help you protect it.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is never easy, especially when your business is on the line. But with the right planning, strategy, and legal support, you can protect your company, your financial future, and your peace of mind.

Whether you’re considering divorce or are already in the middle of proceedings, don’t wait to take steps to secure your business. The sooner you act, the more control you’ll have over the outcome.

Contact Masters Law Group today to schedule a confidential consultation and learn how we can help you protect what matters most.


FAQs: Divorce and Business Ownership

1. Will my spouse automatically get half of my business in a divorce?

Not necessarily. Illinois is an equitable distribution state, which means the court divides marital property fairly, not always equally. If your business is considered marital property, your spouse may be entitled to a portion of its value, but that doesn’t always mean half ownership. The court may award the business to one spouse and compensate the other with other marital assets.

2. How do I know if my business is marital or non-marital property?

This depends on when the business was started, how it was funded, and whether marital assets were used to support or grow it. If the business was created before the marriage and no marital assets were commingled, it may be considered non-marital. However, any increase in value during the marriage could still be subject to division.

3. What can I do to protect my business before getting married or divorced?

Creating a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement is one of the most effective ways to help protect your business. These legal documents can clearly define your business as separate property and outline what should happen to it in the event of divorce. Other strategies include keeping business and marital finances separate and limiting your spouse’s involvement in the company.

4. Can my spouse access my business’s financial records during the divorce?

Yes. During the discovery process, both parties must disclose financial information, including business records. If your spouse believes the business is marital property or was used to hide assets, they may request a forensic accountant to conduct a full review.

5. What happens if my business has international ties or is part of an international divorce?

Divorces involving international elements can get more complex, especially if there are overseas assets, international contracts, or children involved. In such cases, laws like the Hague Convention may come into play. Masters Law Group has experience handling international divorce matters and can help ensure your business and family interests are protected across borders.

Ask an Attorney: How Do I Protect My Assets in a Divorce?

Divorce can be one of life’s most emotionally and financially turbulent experiences. As relationships unravel, so too can the stability of your financial future if not handled with care. Whether you’re contemplating divorce, in the midst of it, or preparing for life after, understanding how to protect your assets is crucial.

At Masters Law Group, we’ve guided countless clients through complex divorces, helping them secure what’s rightfully theirs while navigating the intricacies of Illinois divorce law. In this blog, we’ll walk you through the essential steps and legal strategies to protect your assets during a divorce.

Understanding Asset Division in IllinoisDivorce

Illinois is an equitable distribution state, not a community property state. That means marital property isn’t necessarily split 50/50 during a divorce—it’s divided fairly, based on a variety of factors.

Key Terms:

  • Marital Property: Assets acquired during the marriage, regardless of who holds the title.
  • Non-Marital Property: Assets acquired before marriage or through inheritance/gift specifically to one spouse.
  • Equitable Distribution: A division based on fairness, not necessarily equal, but just.

Understanding these distinctions is the first step in knowing what assets are at stake and which may be protected.

1. Identify and Classify All Assets

The first thing your divorce attorney will do is work with you to identify, classify, and value your assets.

Common Marital Assets:

  • Joint bank accounts
  • Retirement accounts and pensions
  • The family home
  • Vehicles
  • Businesses
  • Stocks and investments
  • Debt incurred during the marriage

Common Non-Marital Assets:

  • Property owned before marriage
  • Inheritances
  • Gifts from third parties (not between spouses)
  • Personal injury awards (in some cases)

Keep in mind that commingling—or mixing marital and non-marital property—can complicate matters. For example, if you deposited inheritance money into a joint bank account and used it for household expenses, it may be considered marital property.

2. Keep Detailed Records

Documentation is your best defense in a divorce. If you want to protect certain assets, you must prove ownership and origin. This includes:

  • Bank statements
  • Property deeds
  • Business ownership records
  • Proof of inheritance or gifts (such as wills or letters)
  • Loan agreements
  • Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements

These records should go back as far as possible, especially if you’re trying to trace the origin of non-marital property.

3. Consider a Prenuptial or Postnuptial AgreementDivorce

If you haven’t filed for divorce yet, one of the best asset protection tools is a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement.

  • Prenuptial Agreement: Signed before marriage, outlining how property and assets will be divided in the event of divorce.
  • Postnuptial Agreement: Similar to a prenup, but signed during the marriage.

These legal agreements can help define what’s considered separate property and how certain assets (including debts) will be handled. They can also protect business interests and inheritance rights.

While courts can overturn such agreements under specific circumstances (e.g., if signed under duress or found to be unconscionable), a properly drafted agreement is a strong line of defense.

4. Don’t Attempt to Hide Assets

Some people, fearing asset loss, are tempted to hide assets, transfer ownership, or undervalue items. Especially when it comes to hard-to-find digital assets like Cryptocurrency. This is a major mistake.

Courts in Illinois require full and honest financial disclosure during divorce proceedings. If you attempt to conceal property and it’s discovered (which is likely), the court may:

  • Award a larger share to your spouse
  • Impose sanctions or fines
  • Hurt your credibility in all aspects of the case

Work with your attorney to disclose all assets truthfully and create a legal strategy to protect what you can within the bounds of the law.

5. Protect Your Business Interests

If you own a business, divorce can put everything at risk, especially if your spouse played any role in the business or if marital funds were used to grow it.

How to Protect a Business:

  • Keep personal and business finances separate
  • Pay yourself a market-rate salary (to avoid claims that profits were marital gain)
  • Have a clear operating agreement or partnership agreement
  • Obtain a professional valuation of the business
  • Consider a buy-sell agreement

If your spouse is entitled to a share of the business’s value, options include a buyout, structured settlement, or trading off other assets of equal value.

6. Understand Retirement Account Division (QDROs)Divorce

Retirement accounts such as 401(k)s, IRAs, and pensions are often marital property if accrued during the marriage. In Illinois, these can be divided using a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO).

A QDRO allows for the division of a retirement account without triggering taxes or penalties. Each spouse receives their share, and it’s crucial to ensure the order is properly prepared and submitted.

If you have a pension or defined benefit plan, an actuary may be needed to determine the present value for equitable distribution.

7. Separate and Secure Digital Assets

In today’s digital age, your online presence and digital assets may have value, financial and personal. These can include:

  • Cryptocurrencies
  • Online business revenue (e.g., from eCommerce or influencers)
  • NFTs
  • Intellectual property
  • Loyalty rewards or airline miles

Ensure that digital wallets and passwords are protected. Provide proper valuation and documentation, and work with your attorney to address these assets in the divorce settlement.

8. Be Strategic with Joint Accounts

If you and your spouse share joint bank accounts, it’s essential to:

  • Monitor activity carefully
  • Keep copies of all transactions
  • Avoid large withdrawals without agreement or court order

If you’re worried about funds being drained, you may need to file for a temporary restraining order to freeze the account. However, consult with your attorney before taking any action that could be perceived as unilateral or aggressive.

9. Create a Post-Divorce Financial Plan

Protecting your assets isn’t just about the divorce—it’s about your future. A post-divorce financial plan can help you:

  • Reassess your budget
  • Rebuild your savings
  • Protect your credit
  • Reallocate retirement contributions
  • Update insurance and estate planning documents

At Masters Law Group, we often collaborate with financial advisors to help ensure our clients are prepared for the next chapter.

10. Work with a Skilled Divorce AttorneyDivorce

Above all, the best way to protect your assets in a divorce is to partner with an experienced attorney who knows Illinois family law.

At Masters Law Group, our team provides:

  • Strategic guidance tailored to your situation
  • Expertise in high-net-worth and complex divorces
  • Mediation and litigation services
  • Asset valuation and financial disclosure support

We help you navigate negotiations with clarity and confidence, always working toward a fair and favorable outcome.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can I protect my inheritance in a divorce?

Yes—inheritances are generally considered non-marital property if they are not commingled with marital assets. Keeping it in a separate account and avoiding using it for marital expenses can protect it.

  • What happens to the house in a divorce?

If the house was purchased during the marriage, it’s likely marital property. The court may award it to one party, order a sale, or arrange a buyout. If one spouse owned it before marriage, it may be considered separate property unless marital funds were used to pay the mortgage or improve it.

  • What if my spouse is hiding assets?

Your attorney can use legal tools such as discovery, subpoenas, and forensic accountants to uncover hidden assets. Courts penalize dishonesty, and such tactics can backfire on the hiding spouse.

  • How can I protect my business from being divided in a divorce?

If your business was started before the marriage or funded solely by non-marital assets, it may be protected. However, if it grew significantly during the marriage or marital funds were used, your spouse may have a claim. To protect your business, maintain detailed financial records, avoid commingling personal and business funds, and consider using a buy-sell agreement or valuing the business for a potential buyout during divorce proceedings.

  • Is debt divided the same way as assets in a divorce?

Yes—under Illinois’ equitable distribution laws, both assets and debts acquired during the marriage are divided fairly. This includes credit card debt, mortgages, auto loans, and personal loans. It’s important to identify whether the debt is marital or non-marital and to work with your attorney to ensure you are not held responsible for debts that aren’t yours.

Final Thoughts

Divorce is never easy, but protecting your financial future is possible with the right strategy and legal guidance. At Masters Law Group, we understand the emotional and financial complexities of asset division, and we’re here to help you make smart, strategic decisions.

From initial consultation to final settlement, our skilled attorneys will stand by your side to ensure you keep what’s rightfully yours and emerge with a solid foundation for your future.

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Ready to discuss your case with an experienced Illinois divorce attorney? Contact Masters Law Group today to schedule a confidential consultation and start building a plan to protect your assets and your peace of mind.

Is Your Marriage Broken Beyond Repair? Top Divorce Lawyer Reveals 7 Shocking Signs It’s Time to End Things

Marriage is a journey—one filled with highs, lows, and everything in between. But what happens when the lows seem permanent, and the bond you once shared feels irreparably damaged?

At Masters Law Group, we understand that making the decision to divorce is never easy. If you’re questioning whether your marriage is beyond repair, there are red flags you shouldn’t ignore. Our team of experienced divorce attorneys in Chicago and DuPage County is here to help you make informed, confident choices about your future.

Here are seven surprising signs it may be time to seek legal guidance—and potentially, a fresh start.

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1. Communication Has Completely Broken Down

If honest conversations have been replaced with silence, sarcasm, or constant arguments, your marriage may be in dangerous territory. Lack of communication erodes emotional intimacy and often leads to misunderstandings, resentment, and distance that feels impossible to close.

Learn more about how we handle high-conflict divorce cases on our Divorce Services page.

2. You’re Living Like Roommates, Not Partners

If your relationship feels more like a shared living arrangement than a marriage—with no shared goals, affection, or connection—it could indicate deeper issues. Couples who function as cohabitants rather than partners often drift so far apart that reconciliation becomes unlikely.

3. There’s a Lack of Trust or Repeated Betrayals

Infidelity, financial secrecy, or other forms of betrayal can permanently damage trust. While some couples can rebuild, ongoing dishonesty often signals that the foundation of the relationship has crumbled.

In these cases, it’s important to protect your personal and financial interests. If you’re in Illinois, our attorneys can help you navigate complex matters like asset division and spousal support.

4. You Stay Together “For the Kids”—But It’s Not Working

Many parents remain in unhappy marriages for the sake of their children. While well-intentioned, children are often more affected by toxic environments than by two separate, happy households. If the marital conflict is ongoing, it may be healthier for everyone to move forward.

Masters Law Group offers compassionate support and guidance in cases involving parenting time and allocation of parental responsibilities.

5. You Fantasize About Life Without Your Spouse—Constantly

It’s normal to imagine different futures from time to time, but if you regularly dream about life without your spouse—and those dreams bring you relief or excitement—it could be a sign that your emotional connection is gone.

6. There’s Emotional or Verbal Abuse

Abuse isn’t always physical. Emotional manipulation, control, gaslighting, and verbal degradation are serious issues that can make staying in a marriage unsafe or unhealthy. You deserve to feel respected and secure in your relationship.

If you’re in immediate danger or need to discuss your legal options confidentially, our team can help you explore orders of protection and other legal safeguards.DuPage Divorce Lawyer

7. You’ve Tried Counseling or Therapy Without Progress

Therapy can be incredibly helpful—but only if both partners are willing to engage. If you’ve exhausted efforts to repair your marriage through counseling and nothing has changed, it might be time to consider next steps.

At Masters Law Group, we believe in informed decision-making. That’s why we offer personalized consultations to explore your options and help you determine whether divorce, legal separation, or mediation is right for you.

Considering Divorce in Illinois, Chicago, or DuPage County?

Whether you’re located in downtown Chicago or the suburbs of DuPage County, our team is here to support you with professionalism, discretion, and care. We handle a wide range of family law matters throughout Illinois and have deep experience working within both Cook County and DuPage County court systems.

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Final Thoughts

Ending a marriage is never an easy decision. But recognizing the signs of a broken relationship can be the first step toward healing and a better future. If you’re considering divorce in Illinois and need legal guidance you can trust, Masters Law Group is here to help.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How do I know if it’s time to get a divorce?
If your marriage is marked by ongoing conflict, lack of communication, emotional disconnection, or unresolved issues despite counseling, it may be time to explore your legal options. Speaking with a qualified divorce lawyer in Illinois can help you better understand your rights and next steps.

What is the divorce process like in Illinois?
In Illinois, divorce (legally known as “dissolution of marriage”) can be contested or uncontested. The process generally includes filing a petition, serving your spouse, disclosing financial information, negotiating or litigating terms, and finalizing the judgment. Our Chicago divorce attorneys guide you through every phase with clarity and compassion.

Do I need a lawyer to get a divorce in DuPage County?
While it’s not legally required, working with a knowledgeable DuPage County divorce lawyer can ensure that your interests are protected—especially when dealing with complex issues like child custody, asset division, or spousal maintenance.

How long does it take to finalize a divorce in Illinois?
The timeline varies based on the complexity of your case and whether it’s contested. An uncontested divorce in Illinois can take as little as a few months, while contested cases may take a year or more. An experienced attorney can help streamline the process.

Can I get divorced if my spouse doesn’t agree?
Yes. Illinois is a no-fault divorce state, which means you do not need your spouse’s consent. If one party believes the marriage is irretrievably broken, that’s sufficient legal grounds for divorce.

What should I bring to my initial divorce consultation?
Bring any relevant documents such as prenuptial agreements, financial records, custody arrangements, or court orders. This helps your divorce attorney evaluate your situation and provide tailored legal advice.

Top Illinois Divorce Attorney: Helping Children Deal with the Stress of a Divorce

As a top divorce attorney in Illinois, Masters Law Group understands that ending a marriage isn’t just a legal event—it’s an emotional journey that affects the entire family; especially children.

Divorce can take a heavy emotional toll on children, often leaving them feeling anxious, confused, or withdrawn. That’s why it’s crucial to have a legal team that not only protects your rights but also prioritizes your child’s well-being. Our mission goes beyond legal representation. We’re here to help families find clarity, stability, and support during one of life’s most challenging transitions.

In this blog, we’ll explore how divorce impacts children, ways parents can reduce stress during the process, and how working with a top divorce attorney can make a lasting difference.

The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Children

Divorce is considered one of the most significant life stressors for children. It can upend their sense of security, alter daily routines, and reshape family dynamics profoundly. While every child responds differently, the psychological impact of divorce often manifests in a few common ways. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, children may show:

  • Anxiety or depression
  • Anger or irritability
  • Withdrawal from social activities
  • Academic struggles
  • Sleep disturbances

These signs can emerge gradually and vary based on the child’s age, personality, emotional maturity, and how the parents navigate the separation process. Children may also struggle with uncertainty and fear about the future—questions like “Where will I live?” or “Will I still see both parents?” can weigh heavily on their minds. That’s why proactive parental support and a well-structured parenting plan are essential.

When to Seek Support

When to Seek Additional Support

Even with your best efforts, some children may need extra help navigating this emotional upheaval. Watch for signs such as:

  • Prolonged sadness or anxiety.
  • Behavioral regression.
  • Academic decline or loss of interest in activities.
  • Self-harm or talk of hopelessness.
  • Persistent anger or defiance.

If these signs persist, early intervention through a licensed child therapist or counselor can be instrumental in helping them develop healthy coping strategies and emotional resilience. At Masters Law Group, our top divorce attorneys can help you identify signs that your child may need professional support and connect you with trusted local resources.

Helping Children Cope: What Parents Can Do

While legal matters are being resolved, it’s crucial to address the emotional needs of your children. Here are key ways parents can help reduce the stress of divorce:

1. Maintain Open Communication

Children need age-appropriate explanations and reassurances. Let them know the divorce is not their fault and both parents still love them. Use simple, clear language. Avoid blaming the other parent or oversharing adult issues.

2. Create Consistency and Routine

Stability helps children feel secure. Keep school routines, meal times, and bedtimes consistent across households when possible.

3. Encourage Emotional Expression

Give your child permission to feel sadness, anger, or fear. Help them find healthy outlets such as journaling, art, or talking to a therapist.

4. Avoid Conflict in Front of Children

One of the most damaging aspects of divorce is exposing children to parental conflict. Shield them from arguments, legal discussions, and emotional outbursts.

5. Co-Parent Respectfully

Work toward a co-parenting plan that prioritizes the child’s needs. Be cooperative, flexible, and respectful in your communication with your ex-spouse.

The Role of a Top Divorce Attorney in Supporting Families

Working with a top divorce attorney can help significantly influence how a divorce affects your child. At Masters Law Group, we prioritize family-focused legal solutions that support emotional and legal outcomes.

Legal Tools That Help Protect Children During Divorce

In any divorce involving children, the court’s primary concern is the best interest of the child. Fortunately, there are several legal mechanisms in Illinois designed to help protect children during this sensitive time and help families establish a clear path forward.

1. Parenting Plans

A parenting plan is a written agreement that outlines how parents will raise their child after separation or divorce. This plan typically includes:

  • A detailed schedule of parenting time.
  • How major decisions will be made regarding the child’s education, healthcare, and religious upbringing.
  • Guidelines for communication between parents and with the child.
  • Provisions for resolving future disputes or modifying the plan.

A comprehensive parenting plan helps eliminate ambiguity, reduce conflict, and give children the structure they need to feel secure and supported.

2. Allocation of Parental Responsibilities

Illinois law no longer uses the term “custody.” Instead, the focus is on the allocation of parental responsibilities, which refers to how decision-making authority is shared or divided between parents. The court evaluates factors such as:

  • The child’s relationship with each parent.
  • Each parent can make decisions in the child’s best interest.
  • The willingness of each parent to facilitate a relationship between the child and the other parent.

By clearly defining who is responsible for what, the law promotes consistency in the child’s life, even in two separate households.

3. Mediation

Mediation is a confidential process where a neutral third party helps parents reach agreements on issues like parenting time and decision-making responsibilities. It is often required in contested family law matters and offers several benefits:

  • Encourages cooperation instead of confrontation.
  • Minimizes courtroom stress and delays.
  • Helps parents create mutually beneficial solutions.
  • Often results in better long-term co-parenting relationships.

Most importantly, by reducing parental conflict, mediation can protect children from emotional distress caused by adversarial litigation.

4. Guardian ad Litem (GAL)

In high-conflict cases or when a child’s safety or well-being is in question, the court may appoint a Guardian ad Litem (GAL)—a specially trained attorney who represents the best interests of the child. A GAL will:

  • Reviewing important documents, including school records, medical reports, and family history.
  • Evaluating the family dynamic and the child’s unique needs.
  • Making a formal recommendation to the court regarding parenting time and decision-making authority.

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At Masters Law Group, Erin E. Masters is a court-appointed Child Representative and has experience advocating for children in these high-conflict matters. Further, she has also been appointed by the Circuit Court of Cook County to mediate complex family law cases. Since 2016, Ms. Masters has been named “Rising Star” by Illinois Super Lawyers and has been named as an “Emerging Lawyer” by Leading Lawyers. In 2020, Ms. Masters was named “Super Lawyer” by Illinois Super Lawyers.

Partner Anthony G. Joseph is an active trial lawyer whose practice focuses exclusively on Family Law, with a particular emphasis on International Child Abduction and cross-border custody issues pursuant to the Hague Convention of 1980 and the UCCJEA.Helping children deal with the stress of divorce requires compassion, consistency, and a proactive legal strategy. With the right support system—including working with a top divorce attorney—you can guide your family toward a healthier future. At Masters Law Group, we don’t just handle your case. We help you move forward. Here’s how we stand apart:

  • Client-Centered Representation: We take the time to understand your unique family dynamics and tailor our legal strategies accordingly.
  • Child-Centered Advocacy: Our attorneys have experience navigating parenting time (visitation) and parental responsibilities.
  • Mediation: Whenever possible, we recommend mediation to avoid lengthy court battles that increase stress for children.
  • Comprehensive Support: We offer resources and referrals to child therapists, counselors, and family coaches to help families adjust during and after divorce.

Let us help you take the next step with confidence. Contact our team today to schedule your complimentary consultation.


Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

How can I explain divorce to my child without causing more stress?
Use age-appropriate language, be honest but reassuring, and emphasize that they are not to blame. Avoid involving them in legal or emotional conflicts. At Masters Law Group, we provide guidance on navigating these sensitive conversations. Our top divorce attorneys connect you with trusted child therapists or family counselors to support your child’s emotional well-being throughout the divorce process.

Can children choose which parent they want to live with in Illinois?

Courts consider the child’s wishes, especially if they are mature enough to express a preference, but the final decision is based on their best interests. Our top divorce attorneys are well-versed in presenting the child’s preferences to the court in a respectful and strategic way while ensuring that your case is focused on the overall well-being and best interests of your child.

How can I co-parent effectively with a difficult ex-spouse?
Focus on respectful communication, consistency in household rules, and always prioritizing your child’s needs. Consider using a parenting app to facilitate communication. Our top divorce attorneys provide legal frameworks and resources for successful co-parenting—even in high-conflict situations. We also offer mediation services to help you and your ex-spouse find common ground and reduce tension.

Should I take my child to a therapist during the divorce?
If your child is showing signs of stress, anxiety, or behavioral changes, therapy can provide a safe space to express their feelings and develop coping strategies. At Masters Law Group, we can recommend trusted mental health professionals who specialize in working with children of divorce and help incorporate supportive arrangements into your parenting plan.


Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you need legal assistance, please contact the qualified attorneys at Masters Law Group. Our firm can help you handle your family law case in Illinois, including divorce, custody, and mediation services.

Sexual Assault Awareness Month: Why Legal Protection Matters in Family Law

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, a time to highlight the often-overlooked connection between divorce and family violence. While ending a marriage is always a complex process, survivors of sexual assault and domestic violence face additional legal and emotional challenges that require protection and advocacy.

Every 68 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. This alarming statistic emphasizes the need for greater awareness, support systems, and legal safeguards to help survivors. This blog explores the significance of Sexual Assault Awareness Month and the essential role of family law attorneys in helping ensure safety and justice for those navigating divorce in the aftermath of sexual violence. Here’s what you need to know.

The Importance Of Sexual Assault Awareness Month

Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) is dedicated to educating the public on the impact of sexual violence, dismantling myths surrounding survivors, and providing resources for those in need. This month also serves as a reminder that survivors are not alone—numerous legal, medical, and advocacy resources are available to help them reclaim their lives.

The key goals of SAAM include:

  • Raising Awareness: Through educational campaigns, organizations work to highlight the realities of sexual assault, its psychological effects, and the barriers survivors face.
  • Prevention Efforts: By promoting bystander intervention, consent education, and healthy relationship standards, SAAM seeks to reduce the occurrence of sexual violence.
  • Empowering Survivors: Access to legal resources, medical care, and emotional support is crucial for helping survivors heal and navigate their next steps.

Understanding Sexual Abuse, Assault, and Harassment

Sexual violence is a broad term that encompasses any unwanted sexual contact, including sexual abuse, assault, and harassment. These acts violate a person’s autonomy and dignity, often leaving lasting physical and emotional trauma. Anyone can be a victim, and those who commit acts of sexual abuse, assault, and harassment can exist in any environment. 

Forms of Sexual Violence include:

  • Rape or sexual assault
  • Sexual harassment
  • Sexual abuse
  • Unwanted sexual contact or touching
  • Sexual exploitation and trafficking
  • Exposing one’s genitals or naked body to others without consent
  • Nonconsensual image sharing and/or coercion (including AI-generated imagery)
  • Unwanted sexual advances or actions that occur without consent

Recognizing and addressing sexual violence is essential to helping foster a society where survivors are supported and perpetrators are held accountable. Legal protections, education, and advocacy play critical roles in combatting these offenses and helping ensure that survivors have access to justice and healing.

The Intersect of Domestic Violence And Sexual Abuse

Domestic violence is a broad term that encompasses various forms of abuse inflicted by an intimate partner, including physical, emotional, financial, and sexual abuse. It is used to exert power and control over the victim.

Under the Illinois Domestic Violence Act (IDVA), forms of abuse include:

  • Physical abuse (including sexual assault)
  • Harassment
  • Intimidation of a dependent
  • Interference with personal liberty
  • Willful deprivation
  • Exploitation
  • Stalking

The Impact of Sexual Abuse in Marriage

Sexual abuse within a marriage is an often misunderstood and underreported issue. Many survivors feel trapped due to financial dependence, cultural stigmas, or fear of retaliation. Some victims of marital rape may not even realize that it is a crime in all 50 states, as legal recognition of this form of assault only became widespread in the last few decades. 

If you are experiencing sexual abuse or coercion within your marriage, seeking help is imperative. A family law attorney can provide guidance on obtaining protective orders and ensuring your safety during the divorce process.

Orders Of Protection: A Crucial Legal Tool

When sexual assault or domestic violence is a factor in a divorce, securing an Order of Protection (OOP) can help safeguard survivors from further harm. Orders of Protection can:

  • Prohibit contact between the abuser and the survivor (and any children involved).
  • Restrict the abuser from entering shared residences.
  • Help ensure financial protection, such as spousal and child support.

Obtaining an OOP involves legal proceedings, and survivors must present evidence of abuse. A family law attorney can assist in gathering the necessary documentation and advocate for the survivor’s behalf in court.

If Children Are Involved: Protecting Their Well-Being

Children who witness or experience sexual abuse in a household are at a heightened risk of emotional trauma. When sexual abuse allegations are involved in a divorce case, the court often appoints a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) to investigate the claims and determine the child’s best interests.

If you suspect child sexual abuse, it is critical to:

  1. Seek a medical examination for the child.
  2. Report the abuse to local authorities or child protective services.
  3. Obtain legal representation to navigate parental responsibilities.

Courts take sexual abuse allegations extremely seriously, and working with a family law attorney who understands these cases can be vital in securing the best outcome for you and your child.

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Navigating divorce while experiencing sexual assault or abuse requires legal advocacy. At Masters Law Group, our attorneys help prioritize your safety, well-being, and rights. Partners Erin E. Masters and Anthony G. Joseph are well-versed in handling high-conflict divorce cases involving abuse and serve as court-appointed Child Representatives. Here’s how we can help:

  • Parenting Time: If you have children, work closely with your attorney to create a parenting plan that prioritizes their well-being. A well-structured arrangement helps ensure stability and supports their best interests.

  • Post-Divorce Disputes: Life changes may require modifications to parental responsibilities, visitation schedules, or support arrangements. Stay connected with your attorney to address any necessary adjustments and ensure compliance with court orders.

  • Orders of Protection: If an order of protection is in place, our attorneys play a critical role in monitoring compliance and addressing violations. Taking swift legal action helps reinforce protections and ensures the safety of survivors and their families.

COMMUNITY RESOURCES FOR SURVIVORS IN ILLINOIS

If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault or domestic violence, you are not alone. Illinois offers various support services for safety, advocacy, and healing. Whether you need emergency assistance, legal guidance, counseling, or housing support, these organizations are here to help:

Final Thoughts

Sexual Assault Awareness Month serves as an important reminder that survivors deserve safety, justice, and support. Divorce can be a critical step toward freedom, but it requires legal guidance to navigate the complexities of family law. At Masters Law Group, our skilled family law attorneys are here to help navigate the complexities of divorce while prioritizing the well-being of survivors and their families. 

Contact us today to learn how we can help you take the next step toward a secure and empowered future.


FAQ: DIVORCE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT

Can I file for divorce based on sexual assault?
Illinois is a no-fault divorce state, meaning the only recognized ground for divorce is “irreconcilable differences.” Therefore, fault-based grounds like abuse or cruelty are not grounds for divorce in Illinois. While the fact of a divorce will be granted regardless of sexual assault allegations, these allegations can have a significant impact on the terms of your divorce settlement. 

Will my abuser still have parenting rights?
The court will evaluate the best interests of the child, and allegations of sexual abuse may result in supervised visitation or complete termination of parental rights. Our experienced attorneys provide compassionate legal guidance, advocating for protective measures and parenting arrangements and helping prioritize your safety and well-being.

How do I prove sexual abuse in my divorce case?
Gathering medical reports, police reports, witness statements, and text messages can help substantiate claims of abuse. Our attorneys help survivors receive the legal support and resources they need to move forward confidently.

Can I receive financial compensation for the abuse I endured?
Financial outcomes in divorce cases vary based on individual circumstances. Courts may consider factors such as spousal support and the impact of abuse when determining settlements. Masters Law Group recognizes the complexities involved in divorces where sexual assault is a factor. Our attorneys provide legal guidance to help clients navigate the process and understand the legal considerations that may apply to their case.


Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. If you or someone you know is experiencing sexual assault or domestic violence, seek legal assistance immediately. Contact Masters Law Group to discuss your specific case and explore the legal protections available to you.