Ask an Illinois Divorce Attorney: What Should Be Included in My Parenting Plan?
When parents file for divorce in Illinois and have children together, one of the most important components of the case is the parenting plan. This document outlines how both parents will continue to care for and raise their children following the end of the marriage.
Unlike older legal terms like “custody” and “visitation,” modern Illinois law focuses on a combined approach to parenting time and allocation of parental responsibilities, both of which can be key components of a comprehensive parenting plan.
At Masters Law Group, our experienced Illinois divorce attorneys frequently counsel clients that their parenting plan should do more than just satisfy statutory requirements. A well-crafted parenting plan can help reduce conflict, provide clarity for your children, and help you build a stable co-parenting relationship long after the divorce is final.
In this guide, we walk through what absolutely must be included in your plan under Illinois law, what else you should consider including, and practical tips for making your plan functional and enforceable.
What Is an Illinois Parenting Plan?
Under Illinois law, a parenting plan is a legal document that becomes part of your final divorce judgment and outlines how both parents will share responsibilities for the care and development of their children. This includes:
- How parenting time (formerly visitation) is divided
- How parental responsibilities (decision-making authority) are allocated
- How the parents will communicate about/with the children
- How future changes and disputes will be resolved
The law requires parents in a divorce case involving minor children to file a parenting plan within 120 days of initiating their case. Parents can agree and submit a joint plan; if they cannot agree, each parent must file their own proposed plan. The court will then use those plans to determine what is in the children’s best interests.
If no parenting plan is filed, the court will schedule a hearing and issue an order allocating parental responsibilities and parenting time based on the children’s best interests.
Required Elements: What Must Be Included in Every Parenting Plan
Illinois law identifies a number of required elements that every parenting plan must address. Failing to include these can result in the court rejecting your plan or imposing its own order.
1. Allocation of Parental Responsibilities
Parental responsibilities are the long-term, major decisions about a child’s life. Under Illinois law, significant decision-making includes:
- Education: choice of school, tutoring, enrollment
- Health care: doctors, dentists, mental health providers
- Religion: religious upbringing and practices
- Extracurricular activities: sports, music lessons, clubs
Your parenting plan must clearly state whether these responsibilities are shared jointly or whether one parent has sole authority in one or more specific areas. If parents choose joint responsibility, the plan can also include a dispute resolution process in case you cannot agree.
2. Parenting Time Schedule
A parenting plan must include a detailed parenting time schedule, explaining when the child will be with each parent. At a minimum, this includes:
- Weekday and weekend schedules
- School year schedule
- Holidays and special dates (e.g., birthdays, Mother’s/Father’s Day)
- School vacations and summer break
The schedule can be specific (exact times and dates) or use a formulaic method to determine the routine in enforceable terms.
3. Transportation and Exchange Arrangements
Your plan must also specify how children will be transported between homes. This includes:
- Pickup and drop-off locations
- Who is responsible for transportation
- What happens in case of delays or emergencies
Transportation logistics often lead to conflict if not clearly spelled out, so including details on this seemingly mundane point can help save future disputes.
4. Access to Records
Each parent’s right to access the child’s records must be identified. Your plan should state how parents can access:
- Medical records
- School and academic records
- Child care and extracurricular records
Specifying how records are shared may help minimize future conflict about access and communication.
5. Emergency Notification Requirements
Your parenting plan should require parents to notify each other promptly in the event of:
- Medical emergencies
- Travel plans affecting parenting time
- Major unexpected events involving the children
Although general communication expectations may be implied, explicitly addressing emergency communication helps avoid confusion at critical times.
6. Residence Information
A parenting plan must include:
- Each parent’s residential address
- Each parent’s contact information (phone numbers, employer contacts)
- The child’s residential address for school enrollment purposes
This designation matters for determining the child’s school district and where the child is officially registered for education.
7. Provisions for Future Changes
Because life circumstances change, your parenting plan should describe how modifications will be addressed:
- Mediation requirements before filing motions
- Notification for proposed changes
- Re-filing process for altered parenting time or responsibilities
A clear pathway for making adjustments prevents parties from rushing back to court at every disagreement.
Optional (But Very Helpful) Elements to Include
While the law establishes minimum requirements, thoughtfully including additional provisions can make your co-parenting arrangement smoother and more predictable.
1. Communication Guidelines
Outline how you and your co-parent will communicate, including:
- Preferred communication methods (text, email, co-parenting app)
- Response time expectations (e.g., 24–48 hours)
- How children will communicate with the non-custodial parent during parenting time (phone calls, FaceTime, etc.)
These structures help reduce misunderstandings and provide clear expectations.
2. Right of First Refusal
A Right of First Refusal provision states that if a parent is unable to care for the children during his or her scheduled time, the other parent has the first opportunity to care for them before outside childcare is used. Although not required, this clause promotes parental involvement and minimizes reliance on third parties.
3. Special Events and Activities
Items you might choose to include:
- Rules for birthdays, graduations, and family holidays
- Details on how family traditions will be shared
- Vacation schedules and notice requirements
- Attendance at school and extracurricular events
These details help preserve important traditions and provide certainty for both parents and children.
4. Relocation Terms
Should either parent plan to move, your plan can (and should) include:
- A minimum written notice period (typically 60 days)
- Details parents must provide before relocating
- A plan for addressing adjustments to schedules if relocation affects parenting time
This type of provision protects both parents and minimizes disruption to the child’s routine.
5. Dispute Resolution Mechanisms
Even well-intentioned parents will encounter disagreements. Your plan can include:
- Mediation requirements
- Agreed choice of mediator or co-parenting counselor
- Step-by-step process before the court is involved
Having a dispute ladder in the plan encourages resolution before litigation.
Practical Tips from an Illinois Divorce Attorney
To help ensure your parenting plan is strong, enforceable, and best for your children’s needs, consider these professional tips:
- Be as Specific as Practical: Ambiguous terms like “reasonable time” or “frequent communication” often become conflict points. Be specific about times, methods, and expectations.
- Avoid Micromanagement: While detail is helpful, overly restrictive or punitive terms (like fines for late pickups) are not appropriate and may be rejected by the court. Instead, provide clear expectations and dispute steps.
- Keep the Child’s Best Interests First: Illinois courts always place the child’s best interests at the forefront. This means your parenting plan should be crafted around the welfare, stability, and emotional needs of the child, not just what benefits one parent.
- Anticipate Future Needs: Children grow, schedules change, and unforeseen life events occur. Try to anticipate issues such as school transitions, summer jobs, or driving age changes, and include flexible mechanisms to address them.
After the Plan Is Filed
Once you submit your parenting plan:
- If both parents agree, the court will generally approve it as long as it’s in the child’s best interest.
- If parents file separate plans, the court will compare them and decide which provisions or combination best serve the children.
- After entry into the divorce judgment, the plan is enforceable, and modifications require showing a significant change in circumstances or mediation efforts.
How Masters Law Group Can Help
Navigating a divorce with children can be emotionally and legally complex. At Masters Law Group, our team of experienced Illinois divorce attorneys is here to guide you every step of the way. We understand that no two families are alike, which is why we focus on tailored, practical solutions that prioritize your children’s best interests while protecting your rights.
Here’s how we can help:
- Drafting and Reviewing Parenting Plans: We help ensure your plan is comprehensive, legally sound, and designed to minimize conflict.
- Negotiation and Mediation Support: If you and your co-parent cannot agree on certain terms, we provide skilled negotiation strategies or represent you in mediation to reach an amicable solution.
- Litigation When Necessary: When disputes cannot be resolved outside of court, we advocate aggressively for your interests while keeping the children’s well-being at the forefront.
- Future Modifications: Life changes, and so can your parenting plan. We help you navigate modifications, helping ensure they are legally enforceable and in the child’s best interests.
- Holistic Guidance: Beyond legal advice, we offer practical recommendations for co-parenting strategies, communication plans, and dispute resolution techniques that work in real life.
Choosing Masters Law Group means partnering with a firm that combines deep legal knowledge, nationwide experience, and a compassionate approach to family law. Our offices in Chicago, Oak Brook, and La Jolla allow us to serve families across Illinois and beyond, handling even the most complex cases, including high-conflict divorces and international parenting issues.
Final Thoughts
A parenting plan is much more than a legal requirement in your Illinois divorce. It’s a roadmap for how you and your co-parent will raise your children through critical years of their lives. Including the required elements, allocation of parental responsibilities, clear parenting time schedules, transportation, communication, emergency protocols, and future modification processes can be essential. Beyond that, thoughtful additions like communication rules, right of first refusal, holiday plans, and dispute resolution mechanisms can make co-parenting smoother and less contentious.
At Masters Law Group, we’re here to help you navigate this process with care, legal insight, and a focus on long-term success for your family. If you have questions about drafting or revising your Illinois parenting plan, contact us to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced divorce attorneys.
Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a qualified attorney regarding your specific circumstances.


























